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[tadeus]

I Love You

How did this make you feel when you first read those three words? Were you expecting to read that after seeing the thread title? I have observed many threads on the Bring4th forum and I see unforeseen consequences after a conversation has become negative. The main topic begins with a form of wanting more understanding and then changes to a heated argument about something unrelated. I wonder if there is a way to prevent further negative discussion. What if instead of continuing the conversation with your own opinion, you simply respond with "I Love You" or "Thank You".

We are programmed to ask why after reading "I Love you".
But of course there is no reason and no why for unconditional love.

Conversations become negative when an EGO is touched / hurt.
This can be caused when the wanted under-standing is not reached and answers are proposed, that are rejected by the EGO.

The result is unforeseen, because the theme goes into an direction, that has nothing to do with the origin of the discussion.

It's very difficult to close with an "I Love You" or "Thank You" in this state.
Maybe only "Thank You, but i am not able to share your opinion".
At least there must be the tolerance of different meanings and point of views.