04-13-2011, 03:31 AM
Derek, Osho is similar to Ra in that aspect... he says that if you love your man / woman you want them to be happy. And if they were happy, having sex with another, then why not let them have it?
Love without any kind of possession.
Of course very few (married) couples are able to view this topic as relaxed as that. It is still mostly about possession... "I will marry you so I have all for myself. Boah did you just look at that woman / guy over there? how could you do this to me?"
I hate the macho bullshit as well. So many guys have this very dense material aura around them. A total turn-off.
Anyway I think guys who are into the spiritual have it easier to find a girl with similar interests.
My ex just used to laugh at my spiritual interests, ridicule them.
Love without any kind of possession.
Of course very few (married) couples are able to view this topic as relaxed as that. It is still mostly about possession... "I will marry you so I have all for myself. Boah did you just look at that woman / guy over there? how could you do this to me?"
I hate the macho bullshit as well. So many guys have this very dense material aura around them. A total turn-off.
Anyway I think guys who are into the spiritual have it easier to find a girl with similar interests.
My ex just used to laugh at my spiritual interests, ridicule them.