Sexual Revolution

[Bring4th_Austin]

Abridge, I was just wondering if you were open to homosex. You seem open.

I am very open, and if I found myself attracted to a male, it wouldn't be a question for me. It hasn't happened yet though!

Honestly, it is impolite of me, but I second guess your view of the two persons you dated. I imagine they have secrets unknown to you. I would also be very interested in where their lives carried to after you. Personally, I found the most "pure" girls to be the most "free" girls in private.

It is not impolite, I'm open to others' suggestions or view on my own experiences or opinions. Like I said, it isn't something I've contemplated in silent meditation though, I'm interested to see what comes up.

I am in touch with both of these girls still, and one is a very good friend of mine. I understand why you might think they have secrets...and it's very possible of the second one, the one who isn't such a close friend any more. But my first real girlfriend, I can assure, was "promiscuous" in and outside of our relationship, and it was in honor of her mother's wishes that she was waiting until marriage to have sex. She eventually decided that waiting until marriage wasn't the best idea, after we had broken up.

This is more about experience for you though, isn't it? Well, the true spiritual nature of sex didn't reach my awareness until I found a woman who accepts me for all of me, my wife. It's really not there in all the dating stuff. I question if it's there with "free love." Honestly, it's difficult to actually remember the times before devotional companionship. It's easier for the experienced crowd to speak slightly about sex. We forget.

It is about experience for sure, but I feel the preincarnative agreements are in place to allow me to formulate unbiased opinions on sex and relationships. Because of my lack of experience, it was very easy for me to let go of the notion that sex or relationships have to be a certain way or a certain thing.

In my most recent contemplations on whether or not I am a dual body individual, it seems like these agreements allowed me to bring forth a more 4D understanding of relationships without interference from 3D ideas of sex and relationships. I will now be able to bring these concept into my reality without having to let go of anything, which is refreshing.

If anyone is wondering why I placed my spiritual experience on my wife's full acceptance of me... What is the most attractive thing to promote my giving fully of myself to an other, other than for the other to accept me fully, and vice versa?

I can only imagine that finding this connection is what brings a lot of people into spirituality. The term "soul mates" is thrown around a lot, even by non-spiritual people. I don't doubt that an other-selve's full acceptance is a very common catalyst for full acceptance of self in many. It's a beautiful thing, and my heart warms just thinking about it. I'm very happy for you and your wife and I am glad that your children have such parents to care for them.