01-08-2009, 09:38 PM
(01-08-2009, 04:36 PM)ChakRAmon Wrote: In regards to the wonderful and sometimes no so seemingly wonderful world of parenting. Hey Elizabeth! Great to see you here! Just came on board yesterday and was so excited to see a website solely dedicated to the art and study and practice of the Law of One and so many wonderful similar things taught so well in Secrets of the UFO.
I am having to watch my youngest and her husband (with two kids) behave in a very self-destructive manor right now. In past times I would be angry and scared and say negative words of judgment to them, but I now know that they cannot actually ever really hurt their eternal Selves in a 3rd density realm of very vivid, but completely safe, illusions in a construct where free will is so completely honored by the One Infinite Creator.
So I will use this catalyst as an opportunity to send them caring conscious intention (sending them money has only enabled their downward spiral) and do exactly what you said in post above - immerse them daily in the Love and the Light of the One Infinite Creator, for there is nothing so simple and yet so infinitely profound as those powerful simple words that consciously agree with how all of Creation works in the first place, in the Love (unwavering and unconflicted conscious intent) and the Light (the "material" result of willful intention) of the One Infinite Creator.
I rest in the knowledge that I can simply claim their higher selves, even as they so willfully choose certain seemingly destructive catalysts that I, as a parent, would rather they not choose, but who am I to deny them their sacred inherent right of free will. From this day forward I choose to smile instead of frown, for the frown claims that the illusion is real (pure insanity) and the smile leads to the knowledge of the Buddha....
Love/Light, ChakRAmon (Chris)
Good Greetings ChakRAmon-Chris:
Yes, it is often difficult to watch our young make poor choices and not sit in judgement of Self or them for our and their choices....
I struggle with this often and my kids are under the age of 8... but very wise beyond their years in some instances...
My beloved husband's brother, is in recovery after he finally hit rock bottom... the place where he knew he could go no further. I had assisted the rest of the family in not enabling the behavior... and waited for that opportunity.. that opening of the heart in which to infuse the other and the Self with Light and Love. Feel this moment arriving soon for your beloved child and grandchildren... it is coming soon... It is very helpful to begin a prayer group for the specific purpose of generating the energy needed for the healing assistance... it only takes a small crack... an opening where the in breath of light infuses with that which is being transformed and magic begins.. the miracle of healing.
My husband's brother is doing very well... 7 months ago a moment occured that I felt and I was there in spirit to infuse with that in breath of Light with a group of wonderous souls who joined with me for this purpose and intent. He now attends a meeting a day and has come to understand that he wandered away from himself for awhile and is getting reacquainted... how long will this last... this is up to him. I do know this he has chosen to do this and is happily doing so.
As far as your grandchildren are concerned it is always a wise parent who is available to assist those who are in need...
fairyfarmgirl