07-04-2011, 07:24 AM
I feel for you, Nyu. I know how horrible these work situations can be, when you are stuck in close proximity with someone.
From my experience I would say be friendly, but distant. I would not be too friendly with her. not sure I would share my food with her in that situation.
What is necessary also for you to get yourself some kind of protection. I remember when I was an apprentice, for one week I had to work with two secretaries who scared me to death, all clad in black and looking like vampires and unfriendly and arrogant as could be. Then one day I took a garlic bulb with me in my trouser pocket to work and all of a sudden these two witches were friendly, lol. I made sure to have garlic with me everytime I had to deal with them. It really worked for me.
Do you know the Asian herb Asafoetida? It is also called devil's dung, lol. One of my teachers said it would scare off negative entities. Try to take that with you, or put a bit of it on the table between yourself and her and see how she reacts (it is some kind of a yellowish powder)
Or you could visualize yourself encoated with white light, or a protective pyramid around youself. There are many methods, just pick one which resonates.
Last but not least, maybe you get the chance to work somewhere else in that company? or one day even to have an office of your own? keep your eyes open.
I wish you all the best!
From my experience I would say be friendly, but distant. I would not be too friendly with her. not sure I would share my food with her in that situation.
What is necessary also for you to get yourself some kind of protection. I remember when I was an apprentice, for one week I had to work with two secretaries who scared me to death, all clad in black and looking like vampires and unfriendly and arrogant as could be. Then one day I took a garlic bulb with me in my trouser pocket to work and all of a sudden these two witches were friendly, lol. I made sure to have garlic with me everytime I had to deal with them. It really worked for me.
Do you know the Asian herb Asafoetida? It is also called devil's dung, lol. One of my teachers said it would scare off negative entities. Try to take that with you, or put a bit of it on the table between yourself and her and see how she reacts (it is some kind of a yellowish powder)
Or you could visualize yourself encoated with white light, or a protective pyramid around youself. There are many methods, just pick one which resonates.
Last but not least, maybe you get the chance to work somewhere else in that company? or one day even to have an office of your own? keep your eyes open.
I wish you all the best!