07-04-2011, 11:23 AM
(07-04-2011, 09:57 AM)Icaro Wrote: Let her know exactly how you feel and be stern about it. Those types of people need to be told exactly how they are, and you would be surprised how much confrontation puts them in their place (not guaranteed). Having self-love and valuing your requirements is fine but the key is expressing it. Once you express and release those emotions you will feel better but the situation will likely continue given what you said.
Save the text messages..you could even show them to HR and have them make a decision. I would also express your concerns to a trusted coworker so you have someone to confirm your side of things should anything arise. Or you could email me her site and some of your coworkers emails and we could easily fix this problemjust kidding
Yes. Be self confident. You can be confident in yourself without being prideful or confrontational.
Also, try to see things from her point of view. She doesn't have any power over you, so there is nothing to fear. You can love her for her ignorance of love.