07-28-2011, 11:25 PM
Josh, with a normal person this would be true but I do not believe this person was/is normal. I tried EVERYTHING, being nice anyway, being comfortable with myself anyway, focusing on work, other friendships around the office and even just saying "ok we are different, let's just put that aside and try and work together anyway" and the more I tried coming up with ways around the situation, the angrier it seemed to make her and the more vindictive she became. I've never come up against someone like that before and it was really hard! When she left even my bosses came to me and told me they saw exactly what was going on and thanked me for my strength and loyalty to get through it, which was really lovely.
Kycahi, that's probably what happened..
Kycahi, that's probably what happened..