12-10-2011, 06:21 PM
(12-10-2011, 10:04 AM)Tenet Nosce Wrote: It could just be a simple matter of setting boundaries (without emotions involved such as resentment or anger or anything unresolved). You have gotten what you needed from the situation, and in order to not be attached to what he is perpetuating, you set the boundary that you won't enable him by talking with him, and also won't allow his energy into your life, by not talking with him.
You are certainly welcome to share your opinion! However, I've already tried not talking to him. That is why he decides to stalk my loved ones instead.
I feel like I've tried everything. The bottom line- and how it relates to this thread- is that this individual fabricated a complete fantasy in his mind about how I was "out to get him" and seemingly persists in believing it after all this time.
Being assertive doesn't work. Asking for forgiveness doesn't work. Ignoring him doesn't work. A shamanic ceremony didn't seem to work. Kuna healing methods don't seem to work. Counseling didn't seem to work. And so on.