You are the only one you are really accountable to. I think it's entirely your choice as to whether you should our shouldn't be a certain way. With that said, you've pretty much stated that you've seen something that you feel is undesirable. Once seen, can you really unsee it, or believe in it again?
Accepting is about coming to terms with the fact that your were the way you were or about things that you cannot change. If you can see it now then it isn't you anymore and you can change it. Of course often times fixing doesn't really mean changing any "thing." It seems that you understand that things are different when viewed from different perspective.
Something is going to change. Either this thing, or your perspective of it. I think only then will you be able to accept it. You might want to try just asking for a different perspective of the same issue.
Accepting is about coming to terms with the fact that your were the way you were or about things that you cannot change. If you can see it now then it isn't you anymore and you can change it. Of course often times fixing doesn't really mean changing any "thing." It seems that you understand that things are different when viewed from different perspective.
Something is going to change. Either this thing, or your perspective of it. I think only then will you be able to accept it. You might want to try just asking for a different perspective of the same issue.