Thanks Monica for your reply. 
I thought about it lastnight, and I realised after you reply that what I was thinking wasn't valid. So thanks for taking the time to discuss and explain.
I also pondered why I was 'attached' to what I percived as a judgmental attitude from you.
Everyone is entitled to think and feel what ever they want
If I'm comfortable with my self and my choises then what other people think dosn't matter to 'me' at all
Thanks Monica, you have helped me understand this.

I thought about it lastnight, and I realised after you reply that what I was thinking wasn't valid. So thanks for taking the time to discuss and explain.
I also pondered why I was 'attached' to what I percived as a judgmental attitude from you.
Everyone is entitled to think and feel what ever they want

If I'm comfortable with my self and my choises then what other people think dosn't matter to 'me' at all

Thanks Monica, you have helped me understand this.