05-03-2012, 11:23 AM
(This post was last modified: 05-03-2012, 11:37 AM by Steppingfeet.)
(05-03-2012, 10:20 AM)3DMonkey Wrote: Just because of this thread and for no other reason, I'm going to buy 20 pounds of meat for a barbecue this weekend.
3DMonkey, this is one of the most ridiculous, rude, spiteful things I've ever seen on the Bring4th Forums.
Granted this thread is *full* of two-way, mutual misunderstandings, hurt feelings, and inability to see eye-to-eye. Granted both "sides" have said things that have appeared antagonistic to the other. I have winced watching many people, vegetarians and meat-eaters alike, say things in ways which I know would not be received well by the other side.
Personally I think the central question in this thread is, "How can we learn to relate to one another when our views, which have practical real-world consequences, run so differently?"
"Which is better, to eat or not eat meat?" is a secondary question, in my opinion.
Regardless, the discord goes on. This thread has been a hornet's nest of mild tension. However that tension has always been kept within reasonable bounds, and each party, no matter how frustrated and "butthurt", still attempts at the end of the day to be somewhat fair and balanced -- a difficult act given how strong and deep the convictions go on this thread.
Your post however represents a deliberately inflammatory and antagonistic remark. I cannot put myself into your shoes and find *any* other motivation than desire to hurt.
Do this again, Monkey, and you're out.
Gary
PS: 1) I would have preferred to send this via PM but that route has failed miserably with you before. 2) Neither Monica nor any other seeker with vegetarian convictions alerted me to your post. I came across it on my own and reacted on my own.
Explanation by the tongue makes most things clear, but love unexplained is clearer. - Rumi