Ahktu, your post was beautiful. It resonated deeply within me. I am now at a time where I am finding my role as a lifeline. It is difficult as being a lifeline as it is a tightrope of absorbing their negativity while radiating positivity, and knowing when to give advice when asked, and knowing when even when asked they are not yet ready for the advice for they have their own darker path they must go down before discovering the light...you have much wisdom 
