06-01-2012, 08:32 AM
(This post was last modified: 06-01-2012, 08:36 AM by Ali Quadir.)
(06-01-2012, 08:22 AM)Oldern Wrote: Discussions will stay heated until all sides accept that every opinion is a valid opinion to have - for those that have it. Until we have someone in the "outside" that we believe is wrong, we will have a reflection of that as in we will meet people who think we are wrong just as much. Therefore, the only way to relax these issues is to be all right with how others eat in life. Simple as that. For me, at least.
I do agree... And please don't interpret this as me telling people what to do... There is however a causality in social dynamic behavior. Meaning that entering the maze at some points mean you often come out at a certain other point. Finding a solution to a problem by doing the same thing over and over again may not be profitable.
At any rate my only suggestion is for everyone to judge for themselves if the outcome is desired or if another path is preferable.
(06-01-2012, 08:31 AM)Oldern Wrote: But just a question. Do you think that these issues will need to surface? This is 2012 after all. No point in hiding in something that is part of us and might be judgmental in nature. These need to surface, be dealt with ,and we move forward as more positive, more higher frequency beings. That is why we need to be compassionate even when we argue. It is not easy, but the arguments will keep resurfacing until "one side" feels that they have a point to prove. And until the "other side" feels the need to defend their points.
Two sides - for one coin, hehe.
I simply believe this is a matter of choice. Not a matter of digging in deep into opposition.. Growing up, becoming a mature and spiritual individual is not so much about going deep in what you don't like... It's more about saying "This is a fruitless undertaking" I will follow another path.
It's about gaining the power to choose who you are, irrespective of the intent of others.
Spiritual evolution is seeing a fishhook for a fishhook. "Not biting" by choice as opposed to "biting" as an uncontrollable reflex.