the need for pairing

[Daydreamin]

I agree and when I finally stopped trying so hard to find one and let her come to me.......We finally crossed paths and it was natural. Like we'd been waiting for each other.

how did it happen, Daydreaming? how and where did you meet?
and what made you realize she was your twinflame?
did you know right away, or did the realization take some time?
I love hearing these kind of stories
And lately I am not even jealous anymore, haha. I am happy for you guys.

We met b/t mutual friends at their engagement party.

I didn't realize she was my 'twin flame' until a few months ago actually. I thought she was my 'soul mate' but I feel that 'twin flame' is even better b/c Sara and I are w/ out a doubt mirrors for each other. We are so similar it's crazy!


As for knowing right away, no not that she was going to be the Love of my Life. But I remember the night we met it just 'felt' very comfortable. Like We had been best friends for years. Long story short she went to U. of Alabama and is a huge college fball fan and so am I (Mizzou RAH!). So, I do business w/ some big time Bama boosters who have been trying to get me to come down for a game. Well, she was telling me how hard tickets were to get and what not and I told her I had the hook up if she wanted to go. So we went and at the time we both were dating someone else but nothing serious.


Then we started hanging out on Saturdays watching college football as friends. She was slowly becoming my best friend that I also was very attracted to. We have so many similar thoughts and interests it's crazy. We really are each others mirrors in every way. Then she would start to just crash over at my condo and one night we kissed and the rest is history!


Being each others twin flame I believe it helps us help each other grow. For example, as we speak she is undergoing the awakening process that I have already experienced and I am able to help her cope much much more than if I hadn't of gone through it.

Another example is that we are both very very talkative people to say the least. So being a good listener is something we both are working on.


It's funny to b/c I have told her that I was at a point when I decided that I would no longer 'hunt' for a girl to marry and instead just 'be' and let her come to me. What is funny is she says she was at the same point in her life where she wasn't giving up but rather not making it a priority I guess? You see I wanted nothing more than to find a gal to marry and have a family with and it's hard to explain over a message board but We sort of just let the stars align so We could find each other.


I will say that a huge part looking back on it was that I wasn't so much frustrated as I was sure that I would make a great husband and father. I am not saying I was cocky. Rather I believed in myself b/c I knew exactly what my motives/intentions where and they were very good. I knew that I was going to make some girl very happy and that I wanted nothing more than that. Needless to say the stars aligned and we're going on 3 years of marriage and have been going out for almost 6 I am proud to say.

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I will comment more when I have time but I believe if the whole World took ecstasy at the same time we would have World Peace and no I am not joking.