A theory about STS I keep running across

[Patrick]

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Your one winning move is not to play to win but to play to entertain? dunno, I'm just musing.

You mean this?

...This game can only be won by those who lose their cards in the melting influence of love; can only be won by those who lay their pleasures, their limitations, their all upon the table face up and say inwardly: “All, all of you players, each other-self, whatever your hand, I love you.” This is the game: to know, to accept, to forgive, to balance, and to open the self in love...

"This is the game: to know, to accept, to forgive, to balance, and to open the self in love"

Now Ra said that 3d is not of knowing. But the knowing above is the knowing of the heart (intuition) and not the knowing from the head.