The Three Functions of a Wanderer (why did we come here?)

[Sagittarius]

I agree but suggest that the two (lightening the vibration and an act of saviorhood) are in this case the same.

Interesting... I've never thought of this before. However, we are in the density of choice. If another asks for help, you may either say "yes" or "no". The only restriction is if your help offering circumvents the necessity that this person make the choice between love and control. My concept of saviorhood -- until this moment -- has been that the supplicant believes that it is not possible for him to make the choice without your help. This would be a vibration in which the supplicant believes it is your responsibility to save him and his responsibility to simply allow it to happen. It would seem to me that help can be offered so long as the belief is that that only the probability of success is raised, rather than the possibility being offered. What makes me hesitant about the way Christians so often speak of Jehoshua is that they seem to believe that there is no other way to escape from the horrors that their imbalance begets.

As I type this, however, your question still rings in my mind. And I'm still wondering if the difference I have described is a difference that makes a difference.

Whenever one comes to me for help which seams to be happening to me a lot recently in a variety of topics, I try to let them know that they have the power to make the right decision, I will offer I guess guidance but always refrain from making the decision for them.

Lately my work has been asking me a lot to do a lot of extra work, the thing is the boss has been firing people who where actually good at there job but got sick of the lack of organization and I guess went about showing that in a way that opted to get them fired. So now instead of hiring more capable people the boss has opted to hire 2 completely people who are quite bad at there job.

I have been saying yes almost non-stop to them everyday when they ring me at the last minute asking me to come in, then when I'am there completely under staffed which presses a lot of stress on me, they always call me because they know I will do the job without complaint.

The only reason I have been saying yes is because I see it as helping the people working at the time rather then helping the company or the boss who is obviously on a tight leash by the higher ups not to put more people on because it would cost to much money. This is starting to frustrate me a lot, it has been a good challenge to my new found calmness and has tested it for sure.

This has been leaving me feeling dissatisfied as I feel like I'am enslaving myself almost to say yes, that was the lesson learned for me. So now when I get that feeling in my stomach of dissatisfaction when asked I will say no. The problem I have with that is in the past I would say no but make a lie as to why I could not do it. Now I will simply say no, if asked why not I will explain my reason without fear of negative outcomes.

Typing this caused me to get that feeling in my stomach and my heart rate to increase hehe. I have always had a problem with saying no to people even when inside I want to say no.