If you could go back in time...

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Ok. There is the offering of self, and if it is rejected by the other, the catalyst is then turned back on the self to be accepted rather than mulling over the idea that one isn't being recognized. That creates an additional boundary, and is the point I'm making. I can see where we might be moving into semantics. So initially there is the attempt at shared understanding, yet should that not occur, the responsibility rests within to internalize the catalyst along the path of acceptance, thus offering love/light.