05-13-2022, 06:59 PM
(This post was last modified: 05-13-2022, 07:02 PM by Spiritualchaos.)
❤️ My 2-year old is going through a lot of brain development right now, so I thought this would be a good metaphor to use.
Unconditional love to me is that as you would look at a child. In one moment, a child may be lost in emotion, crying, throwing a tantrum, going limp and refusing to move because he was denied something for their own good (like getting ahold of a pair of scissors), and the next moment, that same child is running to you with a smile on their face waiting to be embraced in your arms. It is in that child-like nature that we all can experience the beauty of unconditional, sacrificial love. No matter what, they continue to feel love for you, and you for them, no matter what occurs between you. There is no conditions to the love you feel for each other. You can tell them no 100 times, be frustrated that they will not listen, and completely forget the moment they are hurt, offering your love and support to them regardless of how they treated you. You have endless forgiveness and patience for them and their journey. This applies to entities at all stages of their journey in this incarnation, and the next. You are not being a doormat, you are offering your service to them. They are not being ungrateful, they are learning, growing, and understanding the rules and boundaries of their environment. Unconditional love is forgiveness ready and waiting for them, no matter what they do, no matter what occurs. It doesn’t mean that you let them run with scissors and risk cutting themselves, you tell them no and protect them from it, until they know better themselves. Unconditional love is sometimes being the one who loves you enough to offer you a new perspective when the one they are using is hurting them, even if it might make you a bad guy to them until they learn to love themselves and others more fully, and see this for themselves.
Forgiveness is the key to feeling unconditional love, as love is so easy to share when there is nothing holding you back from expressing that love. Holding on to pain is creating barriers from that love, that is the true nature of our beings.
Unconditional love to me is that as you would look at a child. In one moment, a child may be lost in emotion, crying, throwing a tantrum, going limp and refusing to move because he was denied something for their own good (like getting ahold of a pair of scissors), and the next moment, that same child is running to you with a smile on their face waiting to be embraced in your arms. It is in that child-like nature that we all can experience the beauty of unconditional, sacrificial love. No matter what, they continue to feel love for you, and you for them, no matter what occurs between you. There is no conditions to the love you feel for each other. You can tell them no 100 times, be frustrated that they will not listen, and completely forget the moment they are hurt, offering your love and support to them regardless of how they treated you. You have endless forgiveness and patience for them and their journey. This applies to entities at all stages of their journey in this incarnation, and the next. You are not being a doormat, you are offering your service to them. They are not being ungrateful, they are learning, growing, and understanding the rules and boundaries of their environment. Unconditional love is forgiveness ready and waiting for them, no matter what they do, no matter what occurs. It doesn’t mean that you let them run with scissors and risk cutting themselves, you tell them no and protect them from it, until they know better themselves. Unconditional love is sometimes being the one who loves you enough to offer you a new perspective when the one they are using is hurting them, even if it might make you a bad guy to them until they learn to love themselves and others more fully, and see this for themselves.
Forgiveness is the key to feeling unconditional love, as love is so easy to share when there is nothing holding you back from expressing that love. Holding on to pain is creating barriers from that love, that is the true nature of our beings.