03-19-2011, 12:02 PM
(03-19-2011, 07:25 AM)Ankh Wrote:(03-19-2011, 05:04 AM)Bring4th_Monica Wrote: There are only so many things a couple can do, physically, to keep 'sex' exciting.
Sure, but if there are lower nexi blockages then there is nothing you can do to make it exciting.
That's exactly my point! Focusing on the physical in order to make it exciting doesn't work for very long.
Whereas, loving and accepting the other-self, and working together to clear those blockages, strengthens the relationship so that excitement is generated naturally, at the higher levels, and attraction is no longer just based on physical attributes. (Thankfully, since we all age eventually, and sometimes lose attractiveness for one reason or another.) For example, a devoted couple who's been married for 50 years: the man might be just as sexually turned on by his lady as he was when she was 20 and beautiful, even though she is now 80 and wrinkly. If he relied only on physical attraction, how could he continue to desire her? This is precisely why many marriages suffer - one partner (more often the male, but can be the female) no longer is attracted to the other, because she gained 20 pounds, got wrinkly, or whatever. So he seeks out a sweet young thing, in real life, in porn or fantasy, and thus stays blocked in the lower chakras, instead of clearing that blockage by embracing the opportunity to love and accept his fat/wrinkly/sick/maimed wife (who has lost her physical beauty but is still beautiful on a soul level and has so much to offer him on a soul level).
(03-19-2011, 07:25 AM)Ankh Wrote: Good question. I think that it's definately the case in higher densities, but not sure if it's possible in 3D. Don't think it's the case in common western society in present moment.
Right. Those that attempt it often run into challenges. For example, back in the late 70s I had some friends who'd been married several years and were very proud of their hip, open marriage. They openly flaunted their sexual partners.
I lost contact with them and then ran into them a few years later. They'd divorced due to jealousy issues.
This is just one example but I suspect it's common, even in New Age circles. I suspect there is a reason our 3D bodies were designed with plumbing that lends itself to a single partner!
(03-19-2011, 07:25 AM)Ankh Wrote: I am Virgo. How are they regarding sex?
I have no idea. An astrologer once told me that Saggitarians often find monogamy challenging (not to say they can't be monogamous!). I don't like generalizations about people, but curiously enough, over the years I've met a number of Saggitarians who are in their 40s or 50s and never married. They're still out there reveling in the single lifestyle.
Undoubtedly there are many who are happily married. But this opened my mind to the possibility that monogamy is a path that might not be appropriate for everyone....just as not everyone chooses to have children in this lifetime. Parenting is a path...not for everyone. But it's quite a powerful path, for those who choose it.
(03-19-2011, 07:25 AM)Ankh Wrote:Quote:A whole new world is opened up when the higher centers are activated, and this occurs when each partner is completely vulnerable to the other.
This is a good description of what is happening right now. I am very excited.
Glad to hear that!
I suggest caution regarding the activation of the higher centers with a casual partner, without the benefit of a strong green ray connection.
(03-19-2011, 07:25 AM)Ankh Wrote: when he was tied, it assured me that he couldn't go away which I perceived as a relief = an orange ray issue, as I see it. I was not in the domination/control over him, which would be a yellow ray issue.
The reason I asked the question, was that, it seemed to me, that if he "couldn't" go away then he is being controlled.