monica
i have to be true to the way i feel. i never said i dont forgive those who are abusive. i dont walk around with hatred in my heart . but i do not and let me repeat do not like abusive people and the acts that they commit.
i honestly get the feeling that many people in the holistic community are more concerned with the well being of the abuser than the victim. case in point.
there was a 12 year old girl in florida who was walking home from school. this guy kidnapped her, raped her, burned her body while high on heroin.
now i think he has been sentenced to death. i would pull the switch myself with much joy and happiness.
another case in point, two g.i.s in iraq wanted to have sex with a 14 year old girl. they killed her parents raped her killed her and then tried to say the people were insurgents. again i would gladly kill them myself. and sleep very well afterwards.
yes these acts piss me off, seeing the perpetrators suffer would bring joy to me. if there is something wrong with that in someones eyes i really dont care.
the two people who i confronted physically i dont hate them. one was my dad and the other was the ex-husband of my sons wife. i dont hate them but if they weren't confronted the abuse would not have stopped.
the message i get from you is that u are saying to the abusers
oh gee im sorry if your hand got bruised while u were beating me up. what can i do to help you get better. is that what u are saying that u as an individual have no rights only the abusers do. were not allowed to get mad when we see injustice against others because we might damage the tender psyche of the abusers. is that what u are saying ? it is hard to have this conversation on the internet as there is no flow and i think we are both misunderstanding each other . but yes i am happy when people who do miserable things to others get justice . it makes me feel good. it that is a crime so be it.
norral
and just one last point monica . are u saying u wouldnt invite me over for dinner if u had the chance because our views are diametrically opposed
. i have to inject a little humor here m because i like u but we are like fric and frat we aint never ever going to see eye to eye
do u forgive me for that or am i unredeemable in your eyes
your friend
norrl
i have to be true to the way i feel. i never said i dont forgive those who are abusive. i dont walk around with hatred in my heart . but i do not and let me repeat do not like abusive people and the acts that they commit.
i honestly get the feeling that many people in the holistic community are more concerned with the well being of the abuser than the victim. case in point.
there was a 12 year old girl in florida who was walking home from school. this guy kidnapped her, raped her, burned her body while high on heroin.
now i think he has been sentenced to death. i would pull the switch myself with much joy and happiness.
another case in point, two g.i.s in iraq wanted to have sex with a 14 year old girl. they killed her parents raped her killed her and then tried to say the people were insurgents. again i would gladly kill them myself. and sleep very well afterwards.
yes these acts piss me off, seeing the perpetrators suffer would bring joy to me. if there is something wrong with that in someones eyes i really dont care.
the two people who i confronted physically i dont hate them. one was my dad and the other was the ex-husband of my sons wife. i dont hate them but if they weren't confronted the abuse would not have stopped.
the message i get from you is that u are saying to the abusers
oh gee im sorry if your hand got bruised while u were beating me up. what can i do to help you get better. is that what u are saying that u as an individual have no rights only the abusers do. were not allowed to get mad when we see injustice against others because we might damage the tender psyche of the abusers. is that what u are saying ? it is hard to have this conversation on the internet as there is no flow and i think we are both misunderstanding each other . but yes i am happy when people who do miserable things to others get justice . it makes me feel good. it that is a crime so be it.
norral
and just one last point monica . are u saying u wouldnt invite me over for dinner if u had the chance because our views are diametrically opposed
. i have to inject a little humor here m because i like u but we are like fric and frat we aint never ever going to see eye to eye
do u forgive me for that or am i unredeemable in your eyes
your friend
norrl