(07-06-2015, 06:15 PM)IndigoGeminiWolf Wrote: [ -> ]Treehuggers Treehouse isn't open to the public, you have to be logged in. And my thread is in that forum.
Hi IndigoGeminiWolf
I
sincerely respect your sexual and romantic orientation; but (personally) I don't think
any of our sexual and/or intimate desires are relevant to share with this community.
The Ra material isn't sexuality/tantra/physical intimacy based... and imo this community wasn't set up to include conversations about sexual desire or to provide sexual therapy or sexual release.
However, maybe the majority of this community wants to change to include that... I've read only about 10-20% of this website... haven't read most of your furry threads in the treehouse... though I do recall a while back seeing some sexualised images of anthros and conversations that were about sexual desire...
imo - if members want to modify B4th to allow graphic imagery and NSFW sexual discussions/expressions of any kind,
it should be something for everyone to have a big talk about
and Mods should have the final say...
Why?
-
because we don't pay anything for this website - or all of their hard work for L/L and Bring4th.
We aren't their employers, so ultimately Mods don't answer to us...
they're employees of and have allegiance to L/L and it's original and CORE mission statement/principles/objectives.
(IGW - I feel that you share/d because you are listened to and cared about on B4, and as your desire isn't directly achievable in 3D, the closest you can get to it - is to speak of it with friends and share images of your ideal of attractiveness, and perhaps finding other furries here (?).
This allows you the 'next best thing' to soothe your feelings - by expressing your desires... yearnings... amongst people you feel safe with and who understand 'reality' and Love - is multi-dimensional.
I feel that for you this is important and actually very useful.)
However, imo - sexuality is - to humans and wanderers -
such a private and powerful experience that bringing it into these forums is a rather big energetic shift,
even if marked 'NSFW'.
Sexuality, desire (et al) and the sharing of it - is a subtle,
permission based experience between
consenting partners.
Offline - there are increments of permission involved, interpersonal indications, exchanges of energies - available to be 'read' and reacted to (accepted or rejected) on a moment by moment basis...
but online... no such
ongoing permission occurs... reading words, seeing images, on a thread - which you have no way of
accurately knowing or negotiating
the content of in advance, (or of erasing what you've read - from your thoughts - afterwards)... is quite problematic - as although a source of healing, joy, fun, expressiveness, information, etc - it can also confuse, repulse, stress, cause unwanted physical arousal, and/or trigger people, in a way that can be very intense, random - and difficult to keep energetically safe/clear.
were there a 'room'/thread here on B4 for sexuality/erotica/similar imo it would be strange...
sort of like... I see a closed door... and I don't want to enter or participate... but natural curiosity means I do.. and I back out of there fast maybe feeling okay but maybe feeling strange...
...like how most people don't want to see their parents having sex or even discuss it with them... that's how the energy is for me...
- when I read about others sexuality or share about mine...
that actual interaction itself is heading into the territory of sexual energy exchange...
so for me that's why I only discuss it with a lover/partner... because otherwise it's a sexual type of exchange and for me with someone I'm platonic with that feels - "eeeeeouwww... back off"
This issue is like smokers and non-smokers...
- both have the right to what kind of activity and environment they choose - but it's incompatible to have those environments occurring simultaneously...
there
are ways of discussing 'spirituality and sexuality', that are 'academic' but I don't think that's what's being spoken of here.
If it is... I would still say that without leadership - preferably from a sexuality/spirituality therapist (or similar) there's too much possibility of accidental mental/emotional contamination... the "eeeeouww" factor...
nb: this doesn't mean furries (for example) are ""eeeeouwww"... but that (for me)
your (any-one's) desire/arousal
isn't my business...
clearly it's different for others and they can separate/disengage and that's fine... my feedback is about myself and people who feel similar... as I said it's like smokers/non-smokers.. the needs are directly incompatible...
(nb: it's not a pejorative towards those who want to share about sexuality - with the analogy of smokers - ie: that it's negative to share/positive to be private btw
nor that other peoples sexual desires are all "eeeeeouww" to me... it's that I'm fine to read about desires
separate from knowing who has them and be interested/educated etc... but I don't want to know about the specific sexual desires and who has them - in this 'community'... for me it's
"too much information" (capiche?)
Buuuut... this is just my feelings... if enough members here want it differently.. a special "sex cafe/chat room/forum/thread" - well I wouldn't 'oppose' it...
but I
would feel that it should be set up (somehow) independent of Bring4th
Why?
- L/L's mission statement and setting up of Bring4th, is due to 3 brave and dedicated individuals who sacrificed so much to undertake spiritual research that resulted into VERY HIGH QUALITY information from loving, highly evolved, completely integrated group soul complexes.
I feel we owe it to the Spirit of this gift to us, to be as respectful to each other, as polite, as adhering to the rules, as we can; and to engage in spiritual research, and discussion to that end as much as possible. There are so many other places online for other needs and expressions.
Also, this site has it's areas for casual chatting/pm's ... but threads get derailed (or turn into one sentence conversations/replies back and forth) so often it's exasperating...
IGW... I think you
should share your sexuality... it must be lonely and sad to have such a non 3D 'orientation'...
but here on B4? I'm not sure this is the right place... perhaps in the members only forum marked NSFW or in pm's... or are there websites/forums you can invite your friends from here to join you on?
PS: re 'breasts'... either we should have all genders bodies nudity allowed - or female breasts should be censored also...
it's f***** that the western world allows the hyper-sexualising of women - but the equivalent nudity for men (male genitals) is being still covered up - it bugs me a lot. Not that I want to see either... but that it should all be shown or none be shown... not just womens b00bs to sell products :@
ie: massive breasts falling out of tiny bras (but the 'nipple isn't showing so the breast isn't "naked") ie: complete sexual objectification (for example): IS allowed on facebook...
but a fbk page of breast feeding mothers gets banned...
SO WRONG ! 0_0
:@