(03-28-2012, 09:10 AM)ShinAr Wrote: [ -> ]Why are you still receiving emails from this person? can't you have them blocked if you cant close the account?
Good point. When I had a conflict with an obsessive co-worker some years back, and couldn't figure out how to outright block her emails, I just set up a 'rule' in gmail which automatically forwarded her email back to her, then deleted it. So she knew I wasn't reading her emails, which served my purpose at the time. I never knew how long it took her to get the hint because I never saw the emails again.
(Of course, this was after attempts at communication failed and she was entering the realm of harassment.)
Tenet, have you tried Ra's technique of clearing/balancing the chakras? Carla talked about it on last week's show. Very valuable info.
Here's another powerful technique: Soul Retrieval. There are a couple of books by that name and I don't remember which one was the better one, but basically what you do is go back in time (in your memory) to the event that started the discordant dynamic, and rewrite the script with a better outcome.
For example, let's say John Doe had been abused by his father as a child. He could retrieve the memory of the trauma (any single incident will do, since it's basically a snapshot in time), and first watch it play out in his mind like it actually happened, but then replay the movie with the adult John championing the child John. He tells the young John he is strong and teaches him how to stand up to the abusive dad. He then teaches young John to forgive the dad, while simultaneously refusing his offer of service.
It's uncanny how, after doing such a technique with full feeling and focus, the relationship between John and his dad will either change, OR the dad will no longer be in his life in the way he was before. They dynamic will change.
If you are ready to let go of this dynamic in your life, either of these technique will work. The technique is just a focal point for your choice, to help relay your choice to the part of you that is programming catalyst.
Another idea is to jump to another timeline in which you no longer have this conflict. I'm not sure how to describe this. Not everyone here even believes in alternate timelines, but I personally do, and have experienced what I perceive as jumping, many times.
There's no technique, really, but an intention to be on the timeline in which this conflict has been resolved. I perceive a subtle adjusting of energies, and immediately the situation changes. It's difficult to explain beyond that, but if you find this idea intriguing, you can learn more by listening to
Nassim Haramein's lectures about the
Event Horizon.
I'm a huge fan of Nassim. This lecture is long but well worth it.
A few months ago, I did this and right after that, a very discordant person in my life simply went away. She still lives in the same city but we are no longer in contact. It was uncanny. Physically, I could choose to drive over to her house if I wanted to, but if I did that, I would be jumping back to her timeline. I have this interesting
Star Trek sort of feel to this situation; as though she is coexisting in the same space but we're no longer in the same dimension.
I'm sure I don't need to tell you that, ultimately, when you no longer need this catalyst, it will go away, regardless of what you do. I suggest that this person is somehow related to your issues with joy. He seems to be personifying the archetype of extreme unhappiness, to the point of paranoia and even psychosis, thus showing you the extreme opposite of what you are trying to embody in your consciousness. Of these techniques, I would suggest starting with what Carla described first, and use this person's personification as the focal point when you do the 'extreme opposite' part of the exercise. By focusing on this person, you should be able to perceive the energy in a certain chakra.
Then, go through the exercise, replacing that energy, with all its associated emotions, with the opposite, positive version, which will include consciously remembering those fleeting moments of joy you recently experienced. The key is to associate in your mind, the discord with this person and joy. By associating them, you are resolving the paradox; you are grasping that they are 2 sides of the same coin...they are the opposites harmonized...acceptance of the one side leads to transformation to the other.
I suggest that, after doing the exercise as described by Carla, you will find one of the other techniques much more effective, because you will have dealt with the root issue: the catalyst.
I hope you find some of this helpful!
