Unbound
04-14-2012, 04:18 PM
A ladybug has been visiting me for the past couple months, a very distinct one with two slightly different coloured back shells, and one spot on each, perfectly balanced.
The first time it came, it seemed to have been caught on a thermal wind, as we live on the 7th floor, and it happened to fly right in to my chest. We saw eachother, and I saw its markings, and I knew we were to be acquaintances, I knew we were meant to meet.
Lo and behold, it returned, weeks later, however this time it landed directly on my hand which I had been holding out in speech. I always appreciate this one's well executed form, it certainly seemed symbolic.
The third time I found it crawling on the balcony, just hanging out, and so I put my hand down and it came over and climbed on. I watch it crawl around and it seemed to be motioning to me, communicating with me, making these weird gestures with its legs. Then, it crawled up to the tips of my fingers, spread its wings, paused for just a moment, perhaps knowing I have always been curious about how a ladybug looks with its wings spread, and then took off.
Now, today, was perhaps our final meeting, I do not know. It is snowing profusely outside, and I looked out and saw it on our balcony, the same place as last time. It wasn't moving, I had thought that it was dead. I went outside carefully picked it up and put it in my hand and stood back inside and examined it deeply. Then, it suddenly was twitching, and it began to move, it was alive! Its legs uncurled from under itself and it started to slowly walk around. It must have been freezing, it was all jittery, couldn't walk properly or move its legs right, and couldn't even stick to my hand properly. I also began to realize that it could no longer fly, and as it seemed to warm up more it began to come in to agony and started to scramble around and freak out.
I felt so helpless, I didn't know what to do, I had no food for it, no way to take care of a single ladybug in our concrete apartment. I suddenly felt so connected to that ladybug, and yes despite my immense size, brain, and energy, I was completely helpless to "save" the ladybug. I realized that when it was outside, it had gone in to a sleep-like trance because of the cold, and was slowly passing towards its next step of evolution of consciousness. I feel it came here to me in its last moments so I may assist with its passing, and it had one final lesson to offer to me.
I realized it was my own desire and my own pleasures that drove me to pick up the ladybug, to want to "save" it, to keep it as an object in my memory. Yet, that is selfish, why should I be one to question the time that a ladybug has to exist? Its life is exactly as it needs to be for the development of its consciousness. It was well when I was its friend, there was no harm, but as soon as I tried to "save" it, it was in agony, it was tortured, like a soul that had tasted its freedom and then was suddenly dragged back.
I realized that I was meant to honour the ladybug and its mighty journey, not intercept it. As I have thought about it, I realized that this right here, is the essence of "right action", of being conscious of karmic relationships. It is the same as with people, if you are always trying to save them, you might just be causing them a lot of pain and confusion. It is good to be there when they need you, and as a sturdy friend, but one should not give precedence to "the desire/need to be of service/a savior", over the needs of the individual who is seeking assistance, and certainly not when no assistance is seeked.
Love is a very simple thing, Be as you are, allow others to Be as they are. Yes, sometimes Love is tough, and sometimes those who oppose Love and do NOT allow others to be as they are will encounter those "BEings" whose acts of being involves the protection of those who are not being allowed to Be.
And for your amusement, because it is relevant:
I admit, I can't tell you how crushed I was to realize that the ladybug would likely die, I felt such grief, but as I felt it, it slowly dawned in to a new realization.
The first time it came, it seemed to have been caught on a thermal wind, as we live on the 7th floor, and it happened to fly right in to my chest. We saw eachother, and I saw its markings, and I knew we were to be acquaintances, I knew we were meant to meet.
Lo and behold, it returned, weeks later, however this time it landed directly on my hand which I had been holding out in speech. I always appreciate this one's well executed form, it certainly seemed symbolic.
The third time I found it crawling on the balcony, just hanging out, and so I put my hand down and it came over and climbed on. I watch it crawl around and it seemed to be motioning to me, communicating with me, making these weird gestures with its legs. Then, it crawled up to the tips of my fingers, spread its wings, paused for just a moment, perhaps knowing I have always been curious about how a ladybug looks with its wings spread, and then took off.
Now, today, was perhaps our final meeting, I do not know. It is snowing profusely outside, and I looked out and saw it on our balcony, the same place as last time. It wasn't moving, I had thought that it was dead. I went outside carefully picked it up and put it in my hand and stood back inside and examined it deeply. Then, it suddenly was twitching, and it began to move, it was alive! Its legs uncurled from under itself and it started to slowly walk around. It must have been freezing, it was all jittery, couldn't walk properly or move its legs right, and couldn't even stick to my hand properly. I also began to realize that it could no longer fly, and as it seemed to warm up more it began to come in to agony and started to scramble around and freak out.
I felt so helpless, I didn't know what to do, I had no food for it, no way to take care of a single ladybug in our concrete apartment. I suddenly felt so connected to that ladybug, and yes despite my immense size, brain, and energy, I was completely helpless to "save" the ladybug. I realized that when it was outside, it had gone in to a sleep-like trance because of the cold, and was slowly passing towards its next step of evolution of consciousness. I feel it came here to me in its last moments so I may assist with its passing, and it had one final lesson to offer to me.
I realized it was my own desire and my own pleasures that drove me to pick up the ladybug, to want to "save" it, to keep it as an object in my memory. Yet, that is selfish, why should I be one to question the time that a ladybug has to exist? Its life is exactly as it needs to be for the development of its consciousness. It was well when I was its friend, there was no harm, but as soon as I tried to "save" it, it was in agony, it was tortured, like a soul that had tasted its freedom and then was suddenly dragged back.
I realized that I was meant to honour the ladybug and its mighty journey, not intercept it. As I have thought about it, I realized that this right here, is the essence of "right action", of being conscious of karmic relationships. It is the same as with people, if you are always trying to save them, you might just be causing them a lot of pain and confusion. It is good to be there when they need you, and as a sturdy friend, but one should not give precedence to "the desire/need to be of service/a savior", over the needs of the individual who is seeking assistance, and certainly not when no assistance is seeked.
Love is a very simple thing, Be as you are, allow others to Be as they are. Yes, sometimes Love is tough, and sometimes those who oppose Love and do NOT allow others to be as they are will encounter those "BEings" whose acts of being involves the protection of those who are not being allowed to Be.
And for your amusement, because it is relevant:
I admit, I can't tell you how crushed I was to realize that the ladybug would likely die, I felt such grief, but as I felt it, it slowly dawned in to a new realization.