(04-27-2013, 03:00 AM)kanonathena Wrote: [ -> ]Thanks for the info, Monica. If I remember correctly, he has battled with cancer for more than a year now. Actually since 6 months ago, I provide him a 1.25L bottle of ...water everyday, he usually took 3/4 of it either drinking at work or take it home.
Oh, I forgot you have a machine!
1.25L isn't nearly enough. And it has to be fresh, still white and swirling with the active hydrogen.
My experience has been that, when they are ready to let go of the anger and other negative emotions, then they will seek out the remedies, such as the water, that work physically.
I knew someone who drank the water and got off 7 meds, but later chose to wallow in anger and resentment, and quit drinking the water because the water (healing) and her choice to stay angry and die couldn't coexist.
I didn't understand it at the time. I thought, 'how can she do that when she knows how powerful it is and how it saved her life before?' but later I realized that, on some level, she chose to die, despite saying she wanted to live.
I know other people with pain conditions who refuse to quit drinking sodas, even though they've been told the water won't work if they drink sodas. I've had to learn to accept their choice.
This is very common. The challenge for us is that we can't always tell the difference, so we have to just offer our service just the same, but not be attached to whether they utilize what we offer.
But the question is: Why? Why do some people say with their mouths "I want to be healed/heal the cancer/get rid of the pain/etc." while their actions show otherwise? Why do they say they want healing, while continuing to reject what is offered?
I think, in those cases, the root cause is emotional. All illnesses are catalyst, and all catalyst is pre-incarnationally programmed. When we've utilized the catalyst (learned whatever we had set out to learn) then we can let go of the catalyst. It needn't be permanent!
The problem I've had is that I cannot possibly know whether someone is ready to let go of their catalyst or not, when they are telling me they want healing. So I would rather take their words at face value, and offer them whatever service I am able to, than to assume they don't really want to be healed and not offer it.
Then, it's up to them as to whether they accept my offer of service or not.
The hardest part is when we are around that person a lot - like you being around your co-worker, for example - and they continue to talk about their illness, after rejecting offers of help.
I used to find that difficult, until I finally realized "hey that person really identifies with their illness, so I should rejoice that they are living their life according to their own choices...who am I to judge their choices, even if their choice is illness?"
That really helped to set me free, but it was still very, very hard when my family member recently died from cancer, after rejecting the very things she knew could help her. Looking back, I can see so clearly that she simply was not ready to let go of all that resentment. She didn't have the tools. And, her illness and death apparently served a purpose karmically, for those left behind.
