(04-08-2019, 04:53 AM)schubert Wrote: what do u guys do for a living so ur not miserable? im gonna go crazyy!!!

(04-08-2019, 04:53 AM)schubert Wrote: what do u guys do for a living so ur not miserable? im gonna go crazyy!!!

(04-08-2019, 05:25 PM)EvolvingPhoenix Wrote: Tell me, why are you gonna go crazy? And why does what you do for a living change it? Are you working at a job you don't like?

(04-08-2019, 09:28 PM)EvolvingPhoenix Wrote: Well, I dunno what satisfies you to do on a day to day basis. It took me a decade to figure out what I wanted to do! I'll tell you this "Not so bad" beats "sucks ass" so you might wanna just go with whatever you're working on at least for the time being, and you can work on figuring out what else you wanna do while you make money off of that. Better than taking some suck-ass job you hate. I went that route. Don't end up like that. But what things DO you like doing?

(04-08-2019, 10:06 PM)schubert Wrote:

(04-08-2019, 09:28 PM)EvolvingPhoenix Wrote: Well, I dunno what satisfies you to do on a day to day basis. It took me a decade to figure out what I wanted to do! I'll tell you this "Not so bad" beats "sucks ass" so you might wanna just go with whatever you're working on at least for the time being, and you can work on figuring out what else you wanna do while you make money off of that. Better than taking some suck-ass job you hate. I went that route. Don't end up like that. But what things DO you like doing?

thats good advice, thanks. my plan is to have this not so bad way of making money and then work on other things from there, not sure what i really want to do

(04-09-2019, 03:45 PM)Patrick Wrote:  
Through experience, I learned that it's not really what I do, but how I perceive it, that makes what I do enjoyable.  Also nowadays it's more about my work environment and people than my work per se, that makes it enjoyable.

So as difficult as it may be to do, if you find a way to change your perspective enough, it might just fix your issues all by itself.

Changing our perspective is easier said than done, but it begins with the intent to do so...
 

(04-08-2019, 04:53 AM)schubert Wrote: what do u guys do for a living so ur not miserable? im gonna go crazyy!!!

(04-09-2019, 03:45 PM)Patrick Wrote:  
Through experience, I learned that it's not really what I do, but how I perceive it, that makes what I do enjoyable.  Also nowadays it's more about my work environment and people than my work per se, that makes it enjoyable.

So as difficult as it may be to do, if you find a way to change your perspective enough, it might just fix your issues all by itself.

Changing our perspective is easier said than done, but it begins with the intent to do so...
 

(04-10-2019, 12:33 PM)IndigoGeminiWolf Wrote: I failed Politics with an F once, and then passed it with a D I think. It was my worst subject.
I even fell asleep during an exam once, because it was so boring.

(04-10-2019, 12:47 PM)Cyan Wrote: I like it so much I tend to argue with my teachers. Which is not a good thing if you are arguing that the 911 was an inside job on your final exam.

(04-12-2019, 12:06 AM)schubert Wrote:

(04-09-2019, 03:45 PM)Patrick Wrote:  
Through experience, I learned that it's not really what I do, but how I perceive it, that makes what I do enjoyable.  Also nowadays it's more about my work environment and people than my work per se, that makes it enjoyable.

So as difficult as it may be to do, if you find a way to change your perspective enough, it might just fix your issues all by itself.

Changing our perspective is easier said than done, but it begins with the intent to do so...
 

i agree that being able to change ur perception/attitude is very valuable but sometimes i think its good if ur upset with a current situation cause that can drive you to make positive change. i may be stretching what ur saying here but for example if i had a super mundane factory job im not going to try and convince myself that everythings fine and i just need to be more zen, u know what i mean? if i know theres positions i could be in where i could be truer to myself and have a more positive impact (or at least i think i could) then im going to struggle to be happy with a different position.

(04-12-2019, 02:51 PM)Patrick Wrote: The further away you are from what you're supposed to be doing, the harder it will be to reach a perspective where you find it enjoyable.  Still, I believe it's doable to change your perspective enough even in extreme cases.  Doable but probably not realistic, if you are doing something very far from what you came here to do.

It's one of the mechanisms we have to know if we are doing what we incarnated to do.  Everything just flows, is easy and enjoyable when you're doing what you're supposed to be doing.

Still I believe that, even if you're working in a factory instead of being a medical doctor, if you can change your perspective enough, you're actually reprogramming your incarnation.  Thus working in a factory becomes normal and enjoyable and not being a medical doctor is not bothering you so much anymore.

I will admit that this sort of work on the self is seriously not easy to accomplish.  It's much easier to change how you earn your living than adapt to something you do not like doing.

(04-12-2019, 04:03 PM)flofrog Wrote: I have done one , perhaps two, jobs that were not enjoyable from the outside but the people With whom I was working made them both completely different to what might have been seen from the outside.

(04-12-2019, 08:23 PM)schubert Wrote: ive also done work that by itself was fairly dry but the people i was with made it not bad and fun at times!

(04-08-2019, 04:53 AM)schubert Wrote: what do u guys do for a living so ur not miserable? im gonna go crazyy!!!

(04-12-2019, 02:51 PM)Patrick Wrote:

(04-12-2019, 12:06 AM)schubert Wrote:

(04-09-2019, 03:45 PM)Patrick Wrote:  
Through experience, I learned that it's not really what I do, but how I perceive it, that makes what I do enjoyable.  Also nowadays it's more about my work environment and people than my work per se, that makes it enjoyable.

So as difficult as it may be to do, if you find a way to change your perspective enough, it might just fix your issues all by itself.

Changing our perspective is easier said than done, but it begins with the intent to do so...
 

i agree that being able to change ur perception/attitude is very valuable but sometimes i think its good if ur upset with a current situation cause that can drive you to make positive change. i may be stretching what ur saying here but for example if i had a super mundane factory job im not going to try and convince myself that everythings fine and i just need to be more zen, u know what i mean? if i know theres positions i could be in where i could be truer to myself and have a more positive impact (or at least i think i could) then im going to struggle to be happy with a different position.

The further away you are from what you're supposed to be doing, the harder it will be to reach a perspective where you find it enjoyable.  Still, I believe it's doable to change your perspective enough even in extreme cases.  Doable but probably not realistic, if you are doing something very far from what you came here to do.

It's one of the mechanisms we have to know if we are doing what we incarnated to do.  Everything just flows, is easy and enjoyable when you're doing what you're supposed to be doing.

Still I believe that, even if you're working in a factory instead of being a medical doctor, if you can change your perspective enough, you're actually reprogramming your incarnation.  Thus working in a factory becomes normal and enjoyable and not being a medical doctor is not bothering you so much anymore.

I will admit that this sort of work on the self is seriously not easy to accomplish.  It's much easier to change how you earn your living than adapt to something you do not like doing.
 

(06-09-2019, 09:21 PM)JJCarsonian Wrote: right now, I dont do anything for a living