(10-25-2012, 10:00 PM)neutral333 Wrote: I asked Carla and Jim for advice once back in 2000 via e-mail. The advice was ~"There is love in every moment - you just have to find it."

My question is, what is the best way to love someone who is taking advantage of you? How do you love STS?

The only thing I can imagine is loving the lesson that they are showing. That lesson being the resulting pain and stagnation that STS cause for other entities who are in fact also part of their/Oneself.

Any thoughts?

(10-25-2012, 11:54 PM)anagogy Wrote: Sometimes, the most loving thing you can do is to stop enabling their lack of love, which is what STS is -- a lack of love for others. The STS entity limits its love to itself.

So my advice is: stop feeding them your energy. Don't allow them to manipulate you.

Quote:67.11 Questioner: Then how could we solve this paradox?

Ra: I am Ra. Consider, if you will, that you have no ability not to serve the Creator since all is the Creator. In your individual growth patterns appear the basic third-density choice. Further, there are overlaid memories of the positive polarizations of your home density. Thus your particular orientation is strongly polarized towards service to others and has attained wisdom as well as compassion.

You do not have merely two opposite requests for service. You will find an infinite array of contradictory requests for information or lack of information from this source if you listen carefully to those whose voices you may hear. This is all one voice to which you resonate upon a certain frequency. This frequency determines your choice of service to the One Creator. As it happens this group’s vibratory patterns and those of Ra are compatible and enable us to speak through this instrument with your support. This is a function of free will.

A portion, seemingly of the Creator, rejoices at your choice to question us regarding the evolution of spirit. A seemingly separate portion would wish for multitudinous answers to a great range of queries of a specific nature. Another seemingly separate group of your peoples would wish this correspondence through this instrument to cease, feeling it to be of a negative nature. Upon the many other planes of existence there are those whose every fiber rejoices at your service and those such as the entity of whom you have been speaking which wish only to terminate the life upon the third-density plane of this instrument. All are the Creator. There is one vast panoply of biases and distortions, colors and hues, in an unending pattern. In the case of those with whom you, as entities and as a group, are not in resonance, you wish them love, light, peace, joy, and bid them well. No more than this can you do for your portion of the Creator is as it is and your experience and offering of experience, to be valuable, needs be more and more a perfect representation of who you truly are. Could you, then, serve a negative entity by offering the instrument’s life? It is unlikely that you would find this a true service. Thus you may see in many cases the loving balance being achieved, the love being offered, light being sent, and the service of the service-to-self oriented entity gratefully acknowledged while being rejected as not being useful in your journey at this time. Thus you serve One Creator without paradox.

(10-26-2012, 08:57 AM)Bring4th_Aaron Wrote: ...And there is always the veil to consider. It's happened to me - someone who I thought was STS and who I was having a hard time dealing with, was actually very much a brother and friend, and was not really serving himself, just hurting me with unconscious actions.

(10-26-2012, 06:10 PM)Karl Wrote: I usually try to STO other STOs and STS other STSs. As long as I don't hurt anyone more than they hurt me I don't feel bad. Well I rarely feel bad about anything now days actually. STS is their path and I respect and love STS to a certain degree. So I love the experience and try to crush them until they leave me alone. This is a relatively new development/insight for me though and I'm not adept at the crushing yet. I prefer leaving, and being left alone.

I'm pretty sure this is culturally taboo but it's what I am. Of course sometimes STOs can seem to be STS, and STS can seem STO so you have to use good judgement and not take any action to an extreme or irreversible state.

Of course I could be completely wrong and I'm open to that.

(10-26-2012, 09:17 PM)xise Wrote: Do you not find that intermingling love/sto when dealing with sto and crushing(domination? power?)/sts when dealing with sts results in inefficient polarization?

(10-26-2012, 11:28 PM)Karl Wrote:

(10-26-2012, 09:17 PM)xise Wrote: Do you not find that intermingling love/sto when dealing with sto and crushing(domination? power?)/sts when dealing with sts results in inefficient polarization?

What's the purpose of polarizing? It's worked so far. I think of it as a counter-attack until they leave me be. I don't know about efficiencies or anything though.

(10-26-2012, 08:49 AM)Patrick Wrote: You too are the Creator.

(10-26-2012, 08:57 AM)Bring4th_Aaron Wrote: Ra's specifics about this paradox:

Quote:67.11 Questioner: Then how could we solve this paradox?

Ra: blah blah blah... All are the Creator. blah blah blah...

(10-27-2012, 12:18 AM)xise Wrote: both other and you are one

(07-21-2014, 03:16 AM)darklight Wrote: Real STS persons have maximum influence/control on the global society and succeed due to the naivety of people.