Sometimes, what victims need to get past separation is for someone who hasn't been through what they've been through to acknowledge their legitimate need to spend space/time healing.
I think this may define the word "privilege" as it has been attempted to be used here on these forums perfectly. In my experience, my father was a horrible racist and misogynist, so it was part of my every day life. When I read that line, all I thought was, "What a privilege to not have experienced these things!" Some of us have preincarnative programming that has little to do with being able to pinpoint it on a thoughtform from this current incarnation. Did I resonate with "victimhood" before this incarnation? I think a more constructive way to frame it would be that I resonated with martyrdom, the giving of myself to others without hesitation to the point of detriment. This meant just victimizing myself by the means of my being of an entity that vibrated in 4th density energies and choosing my family which decidedly didn't. This programmed me for future experiences where I personally experienced sexism towards me from others than just my own family. It's not something I still currently experience but I could likely still find a wound or two to rip open from my myriad of experiences of having my gender be the cause of a mess.
I wish I could say sexism and racism doesn't exist in my reality, but almost every single woman I meet who has a job is a victim of sexism because they make 1/4 less than what men make. 1/3 of The US's prison population is African American when they make up only 12% of our total population. Over 60% of the prison population is people of color, while over 63% of the total population is actually white. I can't say racism/sexism doesn't exist. This is bypassing the issues that are still current and ongoing that will take time and lots and lots of loving communication and understanding for our planetary mind to deal with. Yes, I know, it is ever possible to get to that point of unity in one strong moment of inspiration, but I'm also just trying to be realistic with what I can personally do to help others in the moment. Obviously, as proven by discussions here, appeals to unity/infinity aren't always the answer. So what do we do in between?
We're dealing with a heart chakra issue. It involves moving this energy up to the blue ray. As victims attempt to share their victimhood, in blue-ray energy, support should be offered until that blue-ray gains enough footing that we can guide others to accurately seat these injustices within their experience. Telling them to just get over it because it doesn't exist in your reality is not productive, in fact in my opinion it leads to repression which just exacerbates the problem.
We are still working with third density energies. Do you call yourself a boy? Then, according to what Minya said, you are reinforcing separation in the planetary mind. Do you still use money? Then you are reinforcing separation. Do you still buy products made by slaves in third world countries? Then you are reinforcing separation. To call people out for having issues with sexism and racism, that you yourself haven't even experienced, for reinforcing separation seems extremely hypocritical to me. Why is it so hard to acknowledge that healing needs time - and that is literally what third density is about? Learning how to heal ourselves, and maybe others, through the passage of time. To tell others that their open wounds "don't matter" and are "reinforcing the manifestation of dissonance within the planetary mind" is callous. Don't you see how this isn't a resolution, but merely making the perceived victim into your perceived aggressor? You're accusing them of polluting your planetary mind. Maybe taking time to seek an awareness of what actually is going on in the planetary mind, instead of focusing on your own personal experience, might lead to a greater understanding.
Quote:In my life I never saw racism being played in front of my eyes, nor sexism on a big enough scale that it wasn't just people to people interaction, heck I probably saw more men be intimidated by women than I saw the opposite.
I think this may define the word "privilege" as it has been attempted to be used here on these forums perfectly. In my experience, my father was a horrible racist and misogynist, so it was part of my every day life. When I read that line, all I thought was, "What a privilege to not have experienced these things!" Some of us have preincarnative programming that has little to do with being able to pinpoint it on a thoughtform from this current incarnation. Did I resonate with "victimhood" before this incarnation? I think a more constructive way to frame it would be that I resonated with martyrdom, the giving of myself to others without hesitation to the point of detriment. This meant just victimizing myself by the means of my being of an entity that vibrated in 4th density energies and choosing my family which decidedly didn't. This programmed me for future experiences where I personally experienced sexism towards me from others than just my own family. It's not something I still currently experience but I could likely still find a wound or two to rip open from my myriad of experiences of having my gender be the cause of a mess.
I wish I could say sexism and racism doesn't exist in my reality, but almost every single woman I meet who has a job is a victim of sexism because they make 1/4 less than what men make. 1/3 of The US's prison population is African American when they make up only 12% of our total population. Over 60% of the prison population is people of color, while over 63% of the total population is actually white. I can't say racism/sexism doesn't exist. This is bypassing the issues that are still current and ongoing that will take time and lots and lots of loving communication and understanding for our planetary mind to deal with. Yes, I know, it is ever possible to get to that point of unity in one strong moment of inspiration, but I'm also just trying to be realistic with what I can personally do to help others in the moment. Obviously, as proven by discussions here, appeals to unity/infinity aren't always the answer. So what do we do in between?
We're dealing with a heart chakra issue. It involves moving this energy up to the blue ray. As victims attempt to share their victimhood, in blue-ray energy, support should be offered until that blue-ray gains enough footing that we can guide others to accurately seat these injustices within their experience. Telling them to just get over it because it doesn't exist in your reality is not productive, in fact in my opinion it leads to repression which just exacerbates the problem.
Quote:Quote:Gender, race, sexual orientation does not matter, to focus on this is to reinforce separation among people based on these traits and reinforce the manifestation of this dissonance of perspective within the planetary mind.
That's a great point.
We are still working with third density energies. Do you call yourself a boy? Then, according to what Minya said, you are reinforcing separation in the planetary mind. Do you still use money? Then you are reinforcing separation. Do you still buy products made by slaves in third world countries? Then you are reinforcing separation. To call people out for having issues with sexism and racism, that you yourself haven't even experienced, for reinforcing separation seems extremely hypocritical to me. Why is it so hard to acknowledge that healing needs time - and that is literally what third density is about? Learning how to heal ourselves, and maybe others, through the passage of time. To tell others that their open wounds "don't matter" and are "reinforcing the manifestation of dissonance within the planetary mind" is callous. Don't you see how this isn't a resolution, but merely making the perceived victim into your perceived aggressor? You're accusing them of polluting your planetary mind. Maybe taking time to seek an awareness of what actually is going on in the planetary mind, instead of focusing on your own personal experience, might lead to a greater understanding.
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