(02-07-2019, 01:18 PM)Infinite Unity Wrote: Its because of the weight or meaning these concepts have in your mind, to you they are of a very high order. Also being aware of these types of things make it easy for one to be naive in other-selves ability to grasp, see, and live by these same concepts. However just as the homeless man could not, or was not ready to accept your help. Its practically the same when teach/learning. Entities are not going to be able to grasp/learn more then they are ready for. There is only one here, you cannot force one to learn or do anything, without there being rebounding effects.
Also believe it or not, but to one on the path to seeking truth, its a good quality to have a partner that "brings out the shadow". These reflections and catalyst are precious, and apart of the very pinnacle for incarnating here. When you feel yourself becoming frustrated towards her, try and step back, and see what your trying to show/learn in these experiences. Taking deep breathes will help the energy from being stuck/blocked, and flow through your system.
Also her interest, and the knowledge/wisdom she brings to the table should be seen as worthy. Because they, if seen from the right angle, will definitely shed light onto your own path. I have no doubt about that. Instead of getting annoyed and trying to steer the conversation to what you want to talk about. Try to be calm, and genuinely interested in what she has to offer. Pay attention, and I am sure you will find information that corelates to your own endeavours. Between this corelation lay the potential to fold,meld, fuse your two paths, respectfully.
The annoyance we feel building, the frustration, and the anger. It is presumable that close people in our lives, when arguing or showing signs of stress, feel that same way internally as we do.
So 100% true. I started the most intense part of my healing when I found the one who triggered everything in me, every good thing and every wound. Everything brought up by my ego was a new thing showing me where I need to work.
My husband by comparison triggers almost nothing, and I trigger almost nothing in him.
Peaceful but we could go many life times learning almost nothing about our shadow this way.
A blessing all the same. Learning to be harmonious is a worthy experience too.
I do not know what is ideal in mate, likely it depends on each person but I am grateful to have someone in my life that I love enough that keeping them in my life ensures I will keep healing my own stuff. Perhaps balance is what is needed.