(03-06-2019, 01:52 PM)Starflower Wrote: Thank you all SO much for your responses, they have helped me massively in my understanding. I have another question but not sure if I should ask here or open a new thread, I will try here first and see - someone stated that being of service to others can be how we affect those closest to us - I have more or less cut contact with two members in my family due to how they made me feel (one was very negative/selfish and the other was using me for money and only seemed to contact me for this reason) I have forgiven these people but I'm now wondering if I should actually be contacting these people and trying to be of service to them? What worries me is how it may affect me as a result. I have limited contact with my mum for the same reason, I keep her at a distance due to her negativity - is this wrong?
You are always with your family. There is no such proximity. Whether you see them in your current incarnation again matters little. You can love them and be with them and still have drawn your boundary of:
Dear beloved family. Right now, in 3rd density, you are heading straight for service-to-self, 4d negative. My attempts to help you have resulted in my own loss of STO-polarity. Now I am no longer as capable of serving the creator via STO. I love you, goodbye.
In other words ...
The Ra Material Wrote:we removed ourselves from the now hypocritical position which we had allowed ourselves to be placed in
You are not serving others if you allow your energy to be eaten by an STS-polarized entity. You will eventually be incapable of service in its truest sense if you naively try to help others against their own free will. Highly polarized adepts will chew you up and spit you out like nothing.
I had to leave many of those knows as "family" in this culture, behind, for I wish to serve others and they will most likely do quite well to get to 4D negative. To serve them best, for me, the most loving action is inaction. But send them rays of love. Not resentment or guilt or hatred. Only then have you truly forgiven.
Remember that those whom you call your family are yet another distortion of The One, this distortion is not an obligation to enslavement and your deterioration. They are as much you, The One Infinite Creator as all of the so-called 'non-family' other-selves. You are the family and the so-called outsider.