03-17-2017, 11:53 AM
Jade Wrote:There are points made well on both sides, but IMO Bring4th really needs to ...
Agua del Cielo Wrote:For me it's not about "sides" to start with, it's about a Common issue we Share at the moment...
Jade Wrote:I guess I'm just baffled that we're still here arguing over "picking sides". To me, this isn't about men vs. women...
Not sure what my mistake here could be...
Jade Wrote:One thing I think is a part of the main theme that is encouraged on this forum is that emotionality is unspiritual. I think people tend to side with the person who is displaying less emotions because they perceive that as more balanced...
very very very unfortunately i agree here!
I think there's quite some denial as well as fear involved.
And, i think, this is the basic problem, especially in the threads in question.
I made tons of suggestions in this as well as many other threads, apart from speaking openly about what i feel and what kind "background" (biographical, in Order to explain where my emotional difficulties are), which i feel i do often, there is nothing more that i could do.
As i already stated, These posts usually dont get much resonance if at all :/
Im caught between sharing what i feel is lacking here (Forum in general) and feeling, this is not the place where i can offer something that is of any value to the members, not sure if you can understand this.