Why the hate for wisdom?

[Minyatur]

I just want someone to actually try to go to a trans woman of color and explain to her, "Well, you chose this incarnation, and Ra says that there is no right or wrong, and you can choose whether or not you are a victim! It's easy! All is well!" 
…

Most people who are oppressed - trans, gay, female, Muslim, whatever - do not feel acceptance or understanding when you tell them to rise out of their victimhood. They aren't there yet, and they have to feel like you understand them before they will take any of your advice. It's just the metaphysical nature of the energy transfer, I'm not trying to get philosophical here.

I personally would not tell anyone that. Neither do I think "all is well."

What I mean—if any of what you said was in response to me—by my comments about victimhood are not about calling "victims" out and lecturing them. 1) I just don't like labels (and that is another conversation), and 2) I am more interested in empowering people. I see pain everywhere, in victims and perpetrators. That's why I think prisons should be places of healing rather than punishment.

That is exactly it. You can make the person feel whole and complete without demonizing someone else.

You can even get to no right and wrong indirectly if you want, as in you can say that people can be ignorant and full of issues that they do not know how to cope with and end up hating things they find easy to single out. That the human nature is weak and easily twisted, so the person should focus on their own view of themselves and not bother with the jugments of others that can be literally any way, you can say that you personally accept that person as they are. You empower the person where they feel disempowered without having to make it about unfairness and victimization that tends to keep someone stuck as hurt. If someone is convinced they were wronged and that it is unfair, they quit wanting to get to feel better because it means to accept and accepting means to let go.