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[Quincunx]

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[MonadicSpectrum]

I love you too, and thank you.

[IndigoSalvia]

I have observed many threads on the Bring4th forum and I see unforeseen consequences after a conversation has become negative. The main topic begins with a form of wanting more understanding and then changes to a heated argument about something unrelated. I wonder if there is a way to prevent further negative discussion. What if instead of continuing the conversation with your own opinion, you simply respond with "I Love You" or "Thank You".

Keeping Love, and specifically, "I love you" in the forefront of our hearts is always a good thing, I think. Along with Love, I remind myself very often: how are seeming other-selves mirroring something back to me? How can I see our Oneness in this moment? 

Occasionally, when I perceive (through my own 'filters') heated interactions in any setting, I try to look for the possible catalyst and/or blockages underneath, whether in myself or seeming other-self. I emphasize "try" because it takes conscious effort from me, and on a daily basis, I react too quickly. Each moment has infinite possibilities for choice (attraction/repulsion), so I try to bring my awareness to what attraction/repulsion is showing up in me. 

[aWanderer91]

I Love You

How did this make you feel when you first read those three words? Were you expecting to read that after seeing the thread title? I have observed many threads on the Bring4th forum and I see unforeseen consequences after a conversation has become negative. The main topic begins with a form of wanting more understanding and then changes to a heated argument about something unrelated. I wonder if there is a way to prevent further negative discussion. What if instead of continuing the conversation with your own opinion, you simply respond with "I Love You" or "Thank You".

On a related topic, how can these three words help you in everyday life. I read somewhere that by thinking "I Love You" when you have a negative thought, it fades away. I tried this with a headache. The intention was love. I am more of a clairvoyant or a person who visualizes internally. I tried this method in a different way. I visualized hearts going up in a sky like balloons and then focused this loving visual thought toward the area where the headache was felt. The negative feeling faded away.

I am not a religious person however I believe in the power of prayer. It is an unseen intention to give to oneself or to another. What if the intention of prayer could be seen much like what a clairvoyant understands. Think of the example I gave before about sending a visual loving intention to a headache. What if you were to do the same visualization but this time think of another person. I have heard about other people on here and throughout the Internet say the words "I send you love and light". I understand that this is because they read the Ra Material. What if instead of just saying it, you feel a loving intention as you say those words or visualize something loving while thinking of the person you want the intention for.

What if you are not clairvoyant? I believe the same concept can apply.

• Clairaudience (clear hearing) - Think of what you understand is loving music and play it in your mind while thinking of another person. I don't claim to understand how this ability works. However, in one way or another most of us have had a song stuck in our head.
  

• Clairsentience (clear feeling) - Feel love and then send love.
  

• Clairalience (clear smelling) - I am a chocolate lover. I get a momentary high just thinking about it. What if one could smell chocolate or another loved food item while thinking of another person.
  

• Clairgustance (clear tasting) - I believe this would be similar to clairalience.
  

I found it to be beautiful and endearing, the colour pink added onto such a lovely and simple sentence made it more appealing. Very feminine indeed.

I think you hit the nail on the head, to respond with "I love you" or "I thank you" after a conversation takes an egotistical turn is the hidden goal of many. But it has to be heartfelt to show true balance in an entity. Ra says, when asked what the response would be if a being was attacked by a bull (and/or another person), the balanced being would be unswayed and would respond with love.

I also agree on what you say when you mention one writing "I send you love and light". I wouldn't say that when a being says these words that it has become outworn and cliche just yet. But power could be added into these words. I always send them from green ray, my heart momentarily lighting up as I write them.

[tadeus]

I Love You

How did this make you feel when you first read those three words? Were you expecting to read that after seeing the thread title? I have observed many threads on the Bring4th forum and I see unforeseen consequences after a conversation has become negative. The main topic begins with a form of wanting more understanding and then changes to a heated argument about something unrelated. I wonder if there is a way to prevent further negative discussion. What if instead of continuing the conversation with your own opinion, you simply respond with "I Love You" or "Thank You".

We are programmed to ask why after reading "I Love you".
But of course there is no reason and no why for unconditional love.

Conversations become negative when an EGO is touched / hurt.
This can be caused when the wanted under-standing is not reached and answers are proposed, that are rejected by the EGO.

The result is unforeseen, because the theme goes into an direction, that has nothing to do with the origin of the discussion.

It's very difficult to close with an "I Love You" or "Thank You" in this state.
Maybe only "Thank You, but i am not able to share your opinion".
At least there must be the tolerance of different meanings and point of views.

[flofrog]

I do too tadeus

[tadeus]

Thank you Seed Spreader and flofrog and of course Quincunx!

I love your thoughts and whishes, but it is not so easy to love you as 'entity', because we never get in touch as being in this physical illusion.
It is easier for me to imagine someone, when i have really met him.
In this physical illusion i normally 'see' someone as 'actor' in my head when i think about someone.

We always have a complex 'picture' of feelings and experience to another self.
So it is not so easy to say "I love you" when you can follow what i want to say.


Here is a nice quote from the Q'uo.