06-17-2012, 05:09 AM
(This post was last modified: 06-17-2012, 05:16 AM by GreatSpirit.)
I'm not to proud to say it, but I admit it...I wanted to "destroy" my step-father today.
Before I go into the post, I want to say that I do love my step-dad and he has been a part of my life for 20 years, but I have always tried to avoid him and do NOT like being in his presence alone. I objected from the beginning when my mom started dating him. He is one of those people that "must be a man" and acts overly manly and I CANNOT STAND those kinds of people whatsoever. If you piss him off, he starts screaming and tries to assert dominance. He's just way too unpredictable. He never physically assaulted me because he knows I'm a lil crazy myself and will go all out on him. He knows he can't threaten or intimidate me that easily so that pisses him off even more.
In fact, when he had a heart attack a few years ago, I came home from somewhere and I saw him sitting on the steps outside my house waiting for the ambulance and I sensed something was wrong and I'm like "what are you doing?? whats going on??" and he just gave me the dirty "f*** off" kind of look. The man almost died that die, and deep down, I kind of wanted that to happen just so I myself could be rid of his crap. There is a lot of positive in him that I see and he has done some very nice stuff for me and we were getting along real good the past few months, but today almost destroyed that.
BUT ANYWAY, it started like this. I came home after dropping my dad off in the afternoon. My cat who I EXTREMELY LOVE and is one of the VERY VERY few things in life that gives me real joy was outside with my mom and step-dad in the backyard. I saw he was outside relaxing underneath the small boat which is fine as long as he's supervised since he's young and curios. Well my mom and step-dad were outside and were ready to give my dog a bath. BAD MOVE!! You see, a hose will generally spook a cat, and thats what it did. I came back out a few minutes later and noticed my cat wasn't there where he was before. So I go outside and ask them where my cat was. They're like "he's around" and I'm like "no he's not" so we're all looking in the backyard and he's no where. We check all in the house and I start freaking out because he's not in the basement. I get real upset and I'm ready to cry and my step-dad's like "you gotta learn to deal with stuff!!" A minute later, me and my mom find him outside in the front of the house!!
What's scary about this is that someone on our street could have stolen him or one of the kids on our street could've chased him into the road and he could've gotten hit by a car. THANK GOD we found him in time, but I was furious with THE BOTH OF THEM because they were too careless and clumsy. NO $HIT THE CAT IS GOING TO GET SCARED IF YOU ARE SPRAYING A HOSE BY HIM!!!!
So I flat out tell them, he is not to be OUTSIDE PERIOD!!! END OF DISCUSSION! And my step-dad's like "well I'm doing stuff outside!! I can't keep watching him! I tell him "SO YOU PUT HIM UPSTAIRS OR IN MY ROOM!!" He keeps running his mouth and he said "I'll take him to the SPCA!!" When he said that, I gave him a VERY VERY stern look and in a kind of evil crazy way I just said "what??" Then my mom jumps in and says "what?" as well.
That man was literally 5 seconds away from being "destroyed" because NO ONE threatens my cat. So I just immediately left and went over to my friend's house for the day. I apologized to him, but I don't recall him or my mom giving me an apology.
Before I go into the post, I want to say that I do love my step-dad and he has been a part of my life for 20 years, but I have always tried to avoid him and do NOT like being in his presence alone. I objected from the beginning when my mom started dating him. He is one of those people that "must be a man" and acts overly manly and I CANNOT STAND those kinds of people whatsoever. If you piss him off, he starts screaming and tries to assert dominance. He's just way too unpredictable. He never physically assaulted me because he knows I'm a lil crazy myself and will go all out on him. He knows he can't threaten or intimidate me that easily so that pisses him off even more.
In fact, when he had a heart attack a few years ago, I came home from somewhere and I saw him sitting on the steps outside my house waiting for the ambulance and I sensed something was wrong and I'm like "what are you doing?? whats going on??" and he just gave me the dirty "f*** off" kind of look. The man almost died that die, and deep down, I kind of wanted that to happen just so I myself could be rid of his crap. There is a lot of positive in him that I see and he has done some very nice stuff for me and we were getting along real good the past few months, but today almost destroyed that.
BUT ANYWAY, it started like this. I came home after dropping my dad off in the afternoon. My cat who I EXTREMELY LOVE and is one of the VERY VERY few things in life that gives me real joy was outside with my mom and step-dad in the backyard. I saw he was outside relaxing underneath the small boat which is fine as long as he's supervised since he's young and curios. Well my mom and step-dad were outside and were ready to give my dog a bath. BAD MOVE!! You see, a hose will generally spook a cat, and thats what it did. I came back out a few minutes later and noticed my cat wasn't there where he was before. So I go outside and ask them where my cat was. They're like "he's around" and I'm like "no he's not" so we're all looking in the backyard and he's no where. We check all in the house and I start freaking out because he's not in the basement. I get real upset and I'm ready to cry and my step-dad's like "you gotta learn to deal with stuff!!" A minute later, me and my mom find him outside in the front of the house!!
What's scary about this is that someone on our street could have stolen him or one of the kids on our street could've chased him into the road and he could've gotten hit by a car. THANK GOD we found him in time, but I was furious with THE BOTH OF THEM because they were too careless and clumsy. NO $HIT THE CAT IS GOING TO GET SCARED IF YOU ARE SPRAYING A HOSE BY HIM!!!!
So I flat out tell them, he is not to be OUTSIDE PERIOD!!! END OF DISCUSSION! And my step-dad's like "well I'm doing stuff outside!! I can't keep watching him! I tell him "SO YOU PUT HIM UPSTAIRS OR IN MY ROOM!!" He keeps running his mouth and he said "I'll take him to the SPCA!!" When he said that, I gave him a VERY VERY stern look and in a kind of evil crazy way I just said "what??" Then my mom jumps in and says "what?" as well.
That man was literally 5 seconds away from being "destroyed" because NO ONE threatens my cat. So I just immediately left and went over to my friend's house for the day. I apologized to him, but I don't recall him or my mom giving me an apology.