About my mother: Help.

[xise]

I don't know what meaning you intend when you speak of grounding, but grounding as I know it does not lower your vibration. In fact, I think the term "lower vibration" is pretty vague and non-useful when used in most discussions.

Dreams are important. Ra talks about the importance of dreams. I've personally had contact with my guides in dreams. They are much harder to pin down in waking life.

Grounding, as I understand it, is about making sure you have strong and balanced red/orange/yellow chakras, with an emphasis on red. I don't know if Ra uses the term grounding. Perhaps the term grounding comes from the fact that energetically, the you become more connected to mother earth, and also seem to feel more connected to this reality via nature.

I don't know how to deal with her specifically, but since all is one, working upon yourself should also improve your relationship with her. I find many wanderers have strong upper energy centers (green/blue/indigo/violet), but need to work on their red/orange/yellow. It was so for me, as well as countless others on this forum.

Perhaps the universe, through your mother, is suggesting balancing the red/orange/yellow. It would make sense, since yellow especially involves power and other selves, and starting a community of any sort would necessarily involve a strong orange and yellow.