Help Transmuting Fear of Grey Aliens Into Love

[Bring4th_Steve]

First, perhaps I can relate this one quick story... There was a point that I got heavily into tarot cards, runes and crystals, and I would experiment with them without knowing how important it is to protect oneself with divine light. One day I was playing with the cards and the crystals at the same time, intending to draw upon the knowledge of the cards. Again, I was doing this powerful exercise without protection, which was a HUGE mistake. While I was unwittingly jumping into the rabbit hole, I suddenly felt "attacked" by an incredibly strong force field. It was like reality was instantly ripped from me and slammed back into my face, disorienting me for a moment. Without any conscious thought, my body immediately shot up from sitting Indian style and bolted out the back door and wrapped itself around a tree. I say "it" did it, because I would have NEVER hugged a tree. I am just not that type of person.

OK, just so I'm clear, do you think this experience is what caused your fear of the Greys? That is, did you have fear of them prior to this incident? I'm wondering if perhaps the negative attack used an image your mind already found frightening or if this is actually what caused the phobia in your case. Try as I might, I can't point to any one experience or incident that "caused" my own phobia.

No, that experience definitely did not cause my fears of the Greys--I was fearful of them since being a young child. I believe that this event (attack) is what caused the one Grey with the red glowing nostrils to haunt me for the next week or two. In other words, I probably opened myself up in a naive way, and that entity happened to see me sitting out there like a carrot, and it simply attached itself to me to scare me and steal the fearful energy that I produced.

As I just mentioned, I have always had problems with aliens, even as a young child. I remember being around 5 years old and seeing the Close Encounters poster where a bright light was off on the horizon, and a highway was leading right to it. That ALWAYS freaked me out, even as a kid! I just "knew" it wasn't good. That experience also tells me that it is likely my reaction comes from another incarnation, because why would a 5 year old boy (myself) be afraid of a light on the horizon with a highway leading into it? I mean, I didn't even know that the poster was for a movie! Just the visual image was enough to creep me out as a kid, and I always avoided it. That tells me that I was carrying energetic "baggage" into this lifetime. Does that make sense?

Thankfully, I knew some intuitive lightworkers who dealt with energy and dreams. This one helpful woman confirmed the next day that I had some negative attachments to my energy body, and agreed to sever the bonds the next time I went to bed.

That night, I dreamt of that woman who helped me, which to me validated that she had entered into the astral and performed a sort of Shamanic type of exercise to cut the bonds. Would you believe, from that night onward, I never had another "face-to-face" encounter with that negative being again!

[take note: this was an energetic bond that was resolved in the dream state]

Hmmm.....Interesting. So this woman helped you IN the dream state, this was not some kind of ceremony in the physical that severed the bond.

That's right. She told me she could lucid dream, and in her own dream state, she would seek me out and sever the negative cord that she felt. I believe she said she visualized a blazing sword to symbolize the cutting, which I later learned is a Wiccan/Celtic/White Magic type of approach to severing cords. I don't know how to get in touch with her, since this was in 1996 through a service like CompuServe or AOL (before the internet chat came out). But I do believe that a Shaman can do this for you as well, as Monica suggested. Shamans are amazing for being able to hunt the astral planes to find attachments, among many other things like diseases and curses, and other negative thought forms. If I were to suggest a 3rd density solution to handle our non-3rd density problem, that would be what I would personally do. But I would also get in the mind set of "intending" for the fear to resolve as well. Because if your heart is not ready to resolve it, the Shaman would be cutting the cord against your will and taking on karma. So giving permission and having the intention to release and heal are very important.

Oh my, I wish I could get to that point! That sounds so much better than the state I am currently in. I am going to try your suggestion. I have to admit to you, that it scares me a little. The idea of intentionally causing a dream with a Grey in it is terrifying. I am going to have to work up to it over a few days of contemplation. But I want to try.

One thing I forgot to mention that I feel is important… Everyone is different, despite how similar our life stories are. When you ask for your situation to be resolved through your Higher Self, it does not mean AT ALL that you are to have an "encounter" in your dream state. In fact, when I was doing my month of "declaring my intentions to the Universe", I never once thought of a Grey. I never once sent energy to one (because I would freak out and think there was one in the room with me). All I did is ask for the Higher sources of Light and my Higher Self to please help resolve this fear in my life. That was the ONLY fear I ever had, besides the fear of flying, which I still have to a lesser degree thanks to some serious inner-work and listening to music on airplanes.

So because of the severity of your fear, it may not even be likely that you are exposed to a Grey. You may wake up with the "knowing" that something was taken care of, and the next time you see almond eyes, you'll remark to yourself.. Whoah, wait a minute.. Why didn't I just get freaked out over that? And you'll then remember that you had something happen in your dream state. So don't pre-destine yourself to having an encounter--it was only the way that it happened for me. And believe me, I would have NEVER asked for a grey to visit me in my dreams and have her tongue slip into my brain. That symbolism it utterly bizarre, but it is also so crazy of an idea, that I feel inside that it was the "click" that changed my perception from that day forward. That grey's presence and her loving demeanor to help me was enough to overcome the residual fears that I was carrying around with me in 3rd density, I believe. For you, it may be 100% different, and it may not even happen in a dream you remember!

Why? Because I strongly believe the problem that we both have exists in a different plane; it's not something that we can solve here in 3rd density. After all, if it could be solved in 3rd density, why wouldn't it have been already? We both tried sending love in meditation, we both have worked on releasing the fears in our own ways. So why didn't it work?

So you believe this is an ASTRAL issue and that is why all of these 3D attempts to tackle it are not working! That makes sense to me on a very deep level. I guess I wasn't allowing myself to see that the fear had any validity, but viewing it as an astral problem changes the dynamic considerably.

I'm glad that resonates with you! Yes, that is what I believe--the vibes are coming from "somewhere" other than 3rd density, and our minds are interpreting the higher vibrational energies that are tied to our emotional and causal bodies. That might explain why it is said when you imagine something, it is not really your brain that is creating a new thought, it's your emotional and causal body that is feeding the brain, and the brain converts the energy into senses/feelings/imaginings that our dense physical bodies can translate and understand.

The only other reason why I believe that our fears are based in another dimension of vibration is because there is no other way to justify why I would be afraid of "close encounter" style imagery at such a young age when it was virtually impossible to understand what the significance of UFO imagery was. Applying the above reason, perhaps my mind was responding to the fear-based energies that were a part of my emotional and causal body, and the "light at the end of the highway" visual resonated with a lower-vibration fear that was still a part of my emotional body. I don't know. I'm getting into uncharted territory here, so it's only my gut feeling that I'm trying to articulate.

But when you add together the concept of fear coming from beyond the physical form, and when the woman went into my dreams to sever cords of a negative being, and when it came time that I actually was "fixed", it all happened in a non-physical state. So that is why I am so convinced that it cannot be solved using our physical minds. The unresolved energies will still continue to persist until we clear the energy somehow.

I wonder what the symbolism of the tongue meant. This dream sounds terrifying at first, with being held down and the tongue... but you say you felt love and positivity? That is, you weren't panicking in the dream? This was a loving, positive being that was emanating goodness?

The only thing I can think of is that the tongue is symbolic of a very intimate part of the body. For her to insert her tongue into my nose and for me to accept it would seem to be an act of submission and acceptance. She is giving me her message on her tongue in a very intimate way, through my nose and up to the brain where the "correction" is planted. I don't know. I do remember it was warm and not all that bothersome once I understood what was happening. But again, realize that dreams are full of symbols, and however we may interpret it in a physical form, I'm sure my mind and my ethereal bodies knew "exactly" what to do at the very moment to allow the intention to take hold. I think I was held down only so that I felt as if I had to stay for the event. I usually run from fearful things in my dreams, so having trusted friends around me, in the childhood home I grew up in, was kind of comforting.

As far as the being emanating goodness… I have had two instances in my life where I have felt pure Love in a form that I cannot express on Earth. And those expressions of love came to me in the dream state. The love was almost like an ecstasy and fulfillment. So if I compare those two experiences to the female grey, I would say that there was no love emanating, but rather a sincere desire to help, and a "friendly" feeling.

If you watch the Camelot video that Dolphin recommended, the guest in the video talks about his experience with the greys. I would say that my experience of the female grey's personality matches what he describes. Friendly, but not loving. (If you haven't seen it yet, you can watch the video, there's no greys in it! ;-) Although the rest of what the guest says is fear-based fodder, in my opinion, which seems to be a running theme with their videos, so please use great discernment when watching.

Oh wow!! How incredible. So some STO Grey being heard your call and visited you astrally. And just that one dream was what turned this around for you? Incredible!! And beautiful, in a way.

Well, that could be the case. But I don't believe that a Grey "heard my call". I do believe that I asked my Higher Self to find a way to solve my fear, and somehow the energies were coordinated for that event to happen in the dream state, where it would be most fruitful for my recall and understanding that something positive happened. Since that female grey did help me and I no longer have fear (instead of being in deeper fear), then I am led to believe that the grey was STO. It is said that there are just as many, if not more, STO greys as there are STS. Much like there are nice humans, as well as humans that would take the opportunity to kill others if they could. It seems to be a common theme to have polarity of the races, and it is possible you and I were either victims of the negative polarity, or we agreed in a past incarnation to play the part of being "victimized" to learn a greater lesson. Don't forget the age-old axiom that everything happens for a reason, even if our feeble minds cannot process and make logical conclusions on why we experience the things we do.

Glad to offer some advice that resonated with you, Pablisimo! I know it seems kind of frightening to embark upon this task of asking your Higher Self to allow the release of the lower-vibrational fear, but please remember that no greys have to be involved or visualized in order to be healed. I believe my situation happened the way it did for my own unique life expression. Yours may be entirely different. Perhaps you have a dream with an angel, or maybe it's not even a dream at all! Spiritual actions can happen outside of 3rd density all the time, and it doesn't mean that we have to be asleep in order for something to happen. It is just helpful to be in the sleep state because if you can remember your dreams, they can more readily be integrated with your mind/ego, which is the motor for causing your physical fear symptoms. If a special dream can tell the subconscious to chill out, then the subconscious would not react to any negative thought forms or send cues to the brain/ego to pump adrenaline. You would therefore fail to have a "frightful experience". This is just my gut feeling. I can't prove this with science, so if something doesn't seem like it fits, I invite you to leave that part alone, as it may be my own bias in how I resolved the issue. :-)

I would also not rule out getting in touch with a Shaman, as suggested by Monica. I don't have anyone that I can recommend, but perhaps if you ask your Higher Self to present you with the opportunity to come across someone who can cut energetic ties. You might just find the perfect person to assist, and it's possible they may even be able to explain the karmic story, if you are so inclined to learn about yourself in that way.

Please let us know how it goes!!! And feel free to ask me questions or to share in your experiences at any time. Since I have gone through almost everything you have as if looking into a mirror, I am very interested in seeing what works for you.

Take care!
Steve