Creating our Heaven Right Now

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So are we building our afterlife in this life? Can we change our decisions in a moment and not manifest certain afterlifes?

My understanding is that in the same way that we are creating our realities now, we continue creating our realities after we leave this physical plane. The only difference is that the other planes are more fluid and respond much more quickly to your vibratory distortions of thought. So you aren't stuck in any particular world after you die, in my opinion, it just simply reflects your dominant thoughts and beliefs, which you can change at anytime (though, as you well know, that can be a challenge too at times). Many people of different faiths, who believe similarly, end up in what they, as a demographic, have collectively conceptualized as their version of heaven. Eventually they realize it is essentially a collective dream, but it can take them awhile, by our linear reckoning of time. Some other people, who feel guilty end up in a similar dream of hell for a variable amount of time. The average person, who has no strong feelings either way, does not get stuck in this "astral mud", and go back to their higher selves (what Robert Monroe termed the "I There") in an environment that they find most agreeable and in harmonic resonance with their soul pattern.