Diana Wrote:That horrible book trilogy that shall not be named did nothing to help the issue.
Lol! Can I just say this was probably the worst "literature" I ever came across. But being curious as I am, I wanted to see what the woo-ha was all about, but I'm afraid I couldn't make it further than about a hundred pages in.
It is quite interesting wouldn't you say, that this book was described by plenty of women as 'liberating'...hmmm.....
Shoulds and should-nots are obviously counter productive, but I agree with the participants in this thread which feel that BDSM is of the negative variety. Nothing should be suppressed, but I think one should try and find the source of such desires.
Ra Wrote:You will find, if you observe the entire spectrum of sexual practices among your peoples, that there are those who experience such gratification from domination over others either from rape or from other means of domination. In each case this is an example of energy blockage which is sexual in its nature.
Ra Wrote:Ra: I am Ra. The proper role of the entity is in this density to experience all things desired, to then analyze, understand, and accept these experiences, distilling from them the love/light within them. Nothing shall be overcome. That which is not needed falls away. The orientation develops due to analysis of desire. These desires become more and more distorted towards conscious application of love/light as the entity furnishes itself with distilled experience. We have found it to be inappropriate in the extreme to encourage the overcoming of any desires, except to suggest the imagination rather than the carrying out in the physical plane, as you call it, of those desires not consonant with the Law of One, thus preserving the primal distortion of free will.
The reason it is unwise to overcome is that overcoming is an unbalanced action creating difficulties in balancing in the time/space continuum. Overcoming, thus, creates the further environment for holding on to that which apparently has been overcome. All things are acceptable in the proper time for each entity, and in experiencing, in understanding, in accepting, in then sharing with otherselves, the appropriate distortion shall be moving away from distortions of one kind to distortions of another which may be more consonant with the Law of One.
It is, shall we say, a shortcut to simply ignore or overcome any desire. It must instead be understood and accepted. This takes patience and experience which can be analyzed with care, with compassion for self and for other-self.