Dawning new realization.

[Sagittarius]

That is the approach I have been taking Icaro. Sometimes I just forget that although realizations may be speeding up rapidly for me, others will still take awhile. I have seen so much catalyst just in the last few months of the change, I guess I got to excited, coupled with being betrayed by a good mate sent me down the hole for awhile.

Yeah, other's growth will be slow. Depending on your particular life-lessons, you will notice that when you become accepting of others or learn more about the lessons provided for you personally, you will notice a change in others. So I have noticed a congruency in others becoming more accepting of various conditions when you accept and learn more about the environment and personal lessons.

I have already forgiven him hehe, learnt my lesson. Patience.

[native]

Glad to hear it!

[BreathofFreshAir]

Ive come to the realization recently that you may not be helping them in this lifetime, but you may have created enough catalyst to help them learn their lessons in the next lifetime

[Sagittarius]

Yep being awake is hard in a dream world, all credit to you old timers .

[Monica]

I'm starting to realize that instead of wondering what the harvest is or when it will occur or how it will occur I should be focusing on learn/teaching and teach/learning of all things I can at this point,the only point, in time.

I just recently reached the very same conclusion! To the point where I even lost interest in the discussions about 'sudden vs gradual' harvest etc.

It just doesn't matter to me anymore. What matters is the present moment.

[Conifer16]

Exactly

[AnthroHeart]

Indeed Monica. It's a relief off my shoulders when I don't worry about whether I will graduate or not. Just living in present makes my life much easier.

[Sagittarius]

I'm starting to realize that instead of wondering what the harvest is or when it will occur or how it will occur I should be focusing on learn/teaching and teach/learning of all things I can at this point,the only point, in time.

I just recently reached the very same conclusion! To the point where I even lost interest in the discussions about 'sudden vs gradual' harvest etc.

It just doesn't matter to me anymore. What matters is the present moment.

Yep I think most of us have or are coming to that conclusion. Sure we may have been aware that it would likely end up like this but now we are actually feeling it.

Starting to notice the change through other forums as well. Way more spiritually themed threads, people reporting change in there bodies, headaches/back aches/tingling.

Everything is going to plan.

[AnthroHeart]

Catalyst is more specific, touching on certain buttons I have had. I too have lost interest in gradual vs quick harvest.

[Diana]

It was all the hard work, the foundations laid by my parents, and their parents, and their parents that allow me this freedom. They did it, so I don't have to.

I also agree Conifer16, with your approach to just being happy. I honestly believe happiness is a choice. One day I chose it, and I never looked back. I understand it isn't that easy for everyone, and am not trying to set a bum example - but I will say that if you can't change your position, change your perspective.

I think we do choose what we focus on. Sounds like you had it a bit easier. In the Maslow's heirachy of needs, food and shelter (basic needs) are on the bottom. If a person has to be concerned about these, as opposed to a person who has that taken care of, the choice is a bit more complicated.

Here is a way I found (or found me) to help the process of choosing positive states of being, even in the midst of financial or basic needs stress:

I lost a lot of money in the real estate crash (I think of money as choices, not a way to accumulate things); the stress of it was extremely intense. So, my NOW at that time was always stress. It was very easy to be happy before that.

I had to move into one of my investment properties, which was located outside the city on a mountainside on a dirt road. There are ravines on both sides of the property and all kinds of animals traverse them.

I had a series of animal visitations right after moving in, that put my attention of them. I started feeding them: deer, javelina, squirrels, bunnies, and birds. What happened was, the times I was in the yard with the animals I came into the NOW of that experience. It was the only time I felt at peace.

I started recognizing that I could choose not be stressed, with the help of the land and the animals, by making sure I was out there everyday.

In this way, I accumulated peacefulness, and lessened the worry and stress, making the balance shift.

[AnthroHeart]

Good work there Diana. Peaceful nature can always bring one into balance.

[fr33d0m]

Thank you for your post. The mind wants to know the how, why, when of everything, endlessly. The heart doesn't.

Welcome to life. Live now. Mystery.