My fiancee and I were just friends and when she saw me the first time she told herself that I looked like I would be a good friend to her, someone with whom she would never fall in love with. That part didn't go so well, because we fell in love deeply in a matter of weeks. 
It's been 7 years already. We are so different, but also very much complementary.
So my advice would be to look outside your patterns. Outside what you are used to look for. This way you may not get what you want per se, but you will get what you need.
It's been 7 years already. We are so different, but also very much complementary.So my advice would be to look outside your patterns. Outside what you are used to look for. This way you may not get what you want per se, but you will get what you need.
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