Singles / Dating

[GentleReckoning]

Is there not a law that is a companion to the law of manifestation? Namely that you vibrate at a certain frequency, thus you attract that experience? Then it is possible, that when attempts to manifest the ideal mate while being frustrated in finding someone (which many of us have experienced in our lifetime), we merely attract what becomes a frustrated/discontented experience in a relationship?

Is there a point to that common advice, "stop looking." That those who seek deep within and find a sense of contentedness in aloneness, may, without actively searching, meet an optimal experience for a compatible catalyst?

That is more or less what I did. For 8 years, I didn't attempt relations with the opposite sex as I knew internally that I wanted to be at a certain place before I put myself in a position to feel such incredibly strong love for another being. I'm there now, and now I need to jump back into the firmament as much of my growth was contemplative in nature and created a separation from the hooks and strings that I feel manifestation uses.

For example, you may have a difficult time manifesting a porsche to drive if you spent all of your time meditating in the Himalayas (though not impossible!). Similar to that, I feel as though the more connections you make with other people, the easier time reality has bending to the will of it's young creators.