02-10-2010, 04:15 AM
Dear sweet Kristy
Bless you dear heart for all of your efforts. Please do not be offended
by what i have to say. You have taken on and accepted the role of
caretaker. It is quite common in situations like this there is usually at least
one in the family who cleans up everybodys mess and takes on
responsibilites at a very young age that have been abdicated by the
adults who should be the caretakers.
you, i ,Carla nobody on this board can save anybody else.
let me repeat you cant save anybody from themselves. they choose to
be dysfunctional. it is hard to accept but the kindest most loving thing
you can do is let these people go straight to hell if they so choose.
if they choose to die so be it. i know it sounds harsh but it is the
truth. we are here to live our own lives and develop our own souls
and we all choose the situations we come to live in. can you believe that
these dysfunctional people might have been kings in a previous life;
it is not only possible it is probable, we are here to experience every
condition possible to develop the compassion in our hearts.
accept the fact dear heart that u are here to live your own life
and live it. go out and find some positive people and have a good time
with them. that is the honest thoughts that come from my soul
peace love and light
norral
Bless you dear heart for all of your efforts. Please do not be offended
by what i have to say. You have taken on and accepted the role of
caretaker. It is quite common in situations like this there is usually at least
one in the family who cleans up everybodys mess and takes on
responsibilites at a very young age that have been abdicated by the
adults who should be the caretakers.
you, i ,Carla nobody on this board can save anybody else.
let me repeat you cant save anybody from themselves. they choose to
be dysfunctional. it is hard to accept but the kindest most loving thing
you can do is let these people go straight to hell if they so choose.
if they choose to die so be it. i know it sounds harsh but it is the
truth. we are here to live our own lives and develop our own souls
and we all choose the situations we come to live in. can you believe that
these dysfunctional people might have been kings in a previous life;
it is not only possible it is probable, we are here to experience every
condition possible to develop the compassion in our hearts.
accept the fact dear heart that u are here to live your own life
and live it. go out and find some positive people and have a good time
with them. that is the honest thoughts that come from my soul
peace love and light
norral