02-11-2010, 07:48 PM
I think it is somewhat obvious that this person is not willing to use the opportunities he is being given to learn. Even if he truly wants to change, if he doesn't muster up the willpower to do it on his own, nothing you do for him is going to help. True transformation comes from within, and by continually covering for his shortcomings you may actually be keeping him from having the motivation to look inside himself and realize that something needs to be done. Of course I wouldn't say you should treat him hatefully, but I can't see the situation getting any better if it continues in the direction its going in now. Of course, this is only my opinion. Choosing what you will do is part of your growth as well.