It's ok to feel loneliness. Just have faith that those experiences and feelings will pass.
I'm an only child. I grew up n the middle of nowhere (lived like 30 minutes outside the city) - no kids on my street to play with when I came home. I grew up with parents who were very much all about conditional love (although now they are completely loving, probably because they became much more spiritual during my adult life). So not only was I physically alone most of the time, but emotionally as well.
It probably makes sense in retrospect that I've only had one serious relationship (11 months). But there are reasons for the loneliness. I know I incarnated to explore issues of lack of self-love, which makes me run from serious relationships (at least until I resolve the issue, or so I feel).
After years (decades?) of cutting over relationships right at the 3 month mark, and after years of working on my self-love issues (though real work on took place after viewing it in a spiritual light), I think I can say I'm ready to open up emotionally, feel like I can love myself, and therefore feel that I am ready to let someone else love me.
Perhaps my story is a little off topic, but I've pondered loneliness (for different reasons perhaps) for a long time, and I hope my thoughts may bring you comfort and faith to know that this too will pass.
I'm an only child. I grew up n the middle of nowhere (lived like 30 minutes outside the city) - no kids on my street to play with when I came home. I grew up with parents who were very much all about conditional love (although now they are completely loving, probably because they became much more spiritual during my adult life). So not only was I physically alone most of the time, but emotionally as well.
It probably makes sense in retrospect that I've only had one serious relationship (11 months). But there are reasons for the loneliness. I know I incarnated to explore issues of lack of self-love, which makes me run from serious relationships (at least until I resolve the issue, or so I feel).
After years (decades?) of cutting over relationships right at the 3 month mark, and after years of working on my self-love issues (though real work on took place after viewing it in a spiritual light), I think I can say I'm ready to open up emotionally, feel like I can love myself, and therefore feel that I am ready to let someone else love me.
Perhaps my story is a little off topic, but I've pondered loneliness (for different reasons perhaps) for a long time, and I hope my thoughts may bring you comfort and faith to know that this too will pass.
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