extreme views of the pendulum

[BrownEye]

I thought all those thoughts from the other point of view and assumed them as if they were mine for the moment.

I broke down in apology and forgiveness afterwards when I really felt the damage I was doing by not understanding or even trying to understand my other/self.

I would think that understanding the view from the "other" would allow you a better understanding of how to communicate the differences and what may lie hidden from their own perception.