01-28-2013, 02:26 PM
(01-27-2013, 12:05 PM)GentleReckoning Wrote: Also, it is likely that your 'trust issues' created this situation for you to learn from.
Pray and meditate and grow.
Oh it was definitely an aspect of it along with being able to forgive. Both of which I did with her. I actually did trust her but that was her rationalization of it.
But an update to this is that she called me a little bit ago out of the blue. She has since moved in with the guy but I feel so bad for her because I can tell she's not happy. He doesn't seem as happy as one normally would with having a child. He also likes his time with his friends a little more than she does and just leaves his son with his mother so be can have a social life more than she's comfortable with.
She just wants to see me but knows its not the best thing. She feels so trapped and lonely and wonders how long she had to try to make it work before giving up. I told her that this is her lesson and I can only be there for support.
It's funny as she never really considered my feelings a lot of the time and also is t getting what she expected of him kinda like she did to me so I'm wondering if this is a little karmic balancing going on.
It just breaks my heart to hear her so sad during what should be a glorious experience.