Singles / Dating

[norral]

i have found it is not so much how u look that is attractive to the opposite sex. it is a combination of how u feel about yourself and of taking and interest in the other person that is attractive to most, not all women. women enjoy having people listen to them. that is just a fact. just being a good listener will make u attractive to the opposite sex. of course it should be genuine. if its phony u wont be able to keep it up. and then feeling good about yourself is key. when u feel good about yourself u send out an energy i like myself. others pick that up and say well if he likes himself he must have a reason to like himself therefore i like him too. if u send out the energy i dont like myself others pick that up and will say well he knows who he is and doesnt like himself therefore i dont like him either. as far as some sin u have committed in the past its like who cares. everyone has done stuff they arent proud of, join the club . i doubt if what u have done is any more terrible than what the rest of us have done. we dont live in the past we live in the present. the bach flower essence holly is about forgiveness of others and self. that would be something to look at. there is nothing wrong with us or right with us except what exists in our own mind. what i am saying is u are plenty good enuf just the way u are , no improvements needed. love to u my brother

norral