Learning Ways of Love

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Thread: Learning Ways of Love

Adonai One (Offline)

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03-11-2013, 08:22 PM (This post was last modified: 03-11-2013, 08:27 PM by Adonai One.)

It is very hard to love others if one is always hating certain aspects of the self. I have found the first to step to unconditional love is to accept oneself along with all existing flaws. To try to control and berate oneself is akin to trying to control and punish the other. Love and acceptance should ideally be shown with all things including whatever is destructive--even within yourself. From there, harmony will begin to manifest itself.

As Ra said, "there are no mistakes."

In summary, to force yourself to love is not to love at all.