STS/STO

[Aaron]

I see there a lot of posts here probably with a lot of insight. Something I just realized, lmao.. it's funny how obvious this is, but I never realized it.. I'm pretty damn self destructive. Any time I took an action that hurt someone, it hurt me, sometimes others were hurt, and I felt bad for THEM, but never myself. That's why I allowed myself to be walked all over by my current gf, even tho I felt she was treating me like $hit, I still cared more about her than myself. what a bloody eye opener...

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wow, you live in Minnesota, twin cities by chance? I'm going to s*** myself if I know you, lol.

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Speaking of the Tao Te Ching, I have been wanting to read that for ages..

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haha, wow, that's beautiful, a very sweet interaction between you too, well done!

That's right, you need love too! It's just not your own love that you're giving yourself. It comes from a higher place through you. Like fairyfarmgirl says, find the opposite. And like Ra said, find the opposite thought, the opposite action that you're capable of.

I am in the Twin Cities. Southern metro actually. We most likely don't know eachother, but what are the chances of meeting a new friend physically close by on these forums? Miracles at work indeed. haha I'll send you a PM with details.