03-05-2010, 07:30 AM
True forgiveness of self is the realization that you do not need to blame yourself. No choice is better than the other, it's all in your own perspective. You'd be surprised to see how many people go around with negative emotions because it feels justified to do such. You decide the justification yourself.
So what's left? The extreme polarities of choice is to see every choice as perfect - blameless or to view every choice as stupid, vain.
I must warn though, once you've established a mentality where nothing is static, that everything can be contradicted, it can be easy to think that everything is pointless, chaos. It is then meaningful to remember that the other polarity exists - perfection, order. Chose any of them. You are free.
So be free and blameless.. and know that you are appreciated, whatever you do, however stupid your choice might seem to you.
Easier said than done, I know. But it is doable.
So what's left? The extreme polarities of choice is to see every choice as perfect - blameless or to view every choice as stupid, vain.
I must warn though, once you've established a mentality where nothing is static, that everything can be contradicted, it can be easy to think that everything is pointless, chaos. It is then meaningful to remember that the other polarity exists - perfection, order. Chose any of them. You are free.
So be free and blameless.. and know that you are appreciated, whatever you do, however stupid your choice might seem to you.
Easier said than done, I know. But it is doable.