Is Conforming Neccessary to polarize STO?

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The key to balance may then be seen in the unstudied, spontaneous, and honest response of entities toward experiences, thus using experience to the utmost, then applying the balancing exercises and achieving the proper attitude for the most purified spectrum of energy center manifestation in violet ray. This is why the brilliance or rotational speed of the energy centers is not considered above the balanced aspect or violet-ray manifestation of an entity in regarding harvestability; for those entities which are unbalanced, especially as to the primary rays, will not be capable of sustaining the impact of the love and light of intelligent infinity to the extent necessary for harvest.

Emphasis mine.

So if you want to balance (and thereby polarize), be always and everywhere yourself. This way, when you do, say and think wildly imbalanced things, you will know what needs balancing. If you hide behind a facade, you hide yourself not only from others, but also from yourself. This is an excellent way to stagnate on the Path.